The 5 best prostate massagers for 2018 + [BONUS USER GUIDE]

A good prostate massager is the cure for boring masturbation. Which leads me to a question:

Are you tired of chopping wood the old fashioned way?

You know the drill. When you’re laying in bed getting ready for a good wank? With your favorite porno video in one hand and your throbbing Johnson in the other.

Yeah, after a many years of the “same old, same old” things got boring for me too. So I decided to change things up with a different kind of male sex toy. Nowadays, masturbation is much more…orgasmic!


5 reasons why I love prostate toys:

  1. I can play solo or with a partner. I just stick it in my butt and enjoy the ride!
  2. Regular masturbation gets old and loses its lustre. This toy spices things up, making jacking off more fun.
  3. Every now and then I have trouble “getting it up.” I don’t need an erection to enjoy a prostate toy.
  4. They’re naughty. Sticking toys in my butt feels taboo, making the experience even more exciting.
  5. I love the feeling of fullness down there. Magnificent. Primal. Relaxing.


Let’s get right to it. This is by no means a complete list of all the stimulators out there. They are, however, all toys that I’ve used and tested extensively. So I know what I’m talking about.



Mr. Racy’s top 5 list!

#1. LELO Loki

Here’s the reason this stimulator is my #1 favorite: the vibrations are simply the strongest, most powerful vibes I’ve ever felt in a prostate toy. Bar none.

It’s like the LELO Billy on steroids.

But what if I’m not feeling like getting my prostate pounded today? No problem. I can turn the vibes way down so I feel nothing more than a tickle. Enough for a light day massage session.

This male vibrator is a modern day sexual work of art. It can make me moan in ecstasy or squirm with discomfort, depending on how I use it. Regardless, this toy is great every time I use it.


Lelo Loki

The LELO Loki. Note the easy to navigate control pad on the left.


You may be familiar with the name Loki from Norse mythology. Like the namesake, this toy is full of surprises and satisfying attributes that will make any man’s prostate tremble with excitement.


  • The larger size provides that “full” feeling down there. More so than every other toy I have reviewed. A primal experience every man should try.
  • Controls are fairly easy to operate and become familiar with.
  • Like the Hugo, it’s powered by a rechargeable battery with excellent life.
  • The velvety smooth business end of the toy feels great and cleans up easily.


  • If you have a tight butt hole, it’s uncomfortable at first.
  • Somewhat expensive, but more affordable than the HUGO below.
  • No wireless remote. Not a bit deal for some guys, but I personally love the ability to control my toys from a distance. Not possible here.

Read my full LOKI review, right here. Also, read bout LOKI’s half brother called WAVE, here


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#2. LELO Hugo

I’ve written about HUGO a lot since it was released a couple years ago. I don’t use it as much as I used to, but it’s still one of my favorite horses in the stable – so to speak.

Yes, I know. Another toy from LELO. I cant help it, though. They make some of my favorite male sex toys.

Here’s why I like this one so much: the wireless remote control. For a long time I never had wireless toys, and thought of them as a silly gimmick. Now that I have one, I can’t believe I waited so long. Being able to have my hands free to do other things is awesome. I simply find a setting I like, and put the remote down. Voila! Hands-free!


Lelo Hugo remote control male vibrator

Toy on the right. Wireless remote control on the left.



  • It’s cordless, utilizing a rechargeable battery.
  • It comes with a wireless remote control.
  • A satin, soft feel texture that feels good in the hand, even better in the butt.
  • HUGE range of vibrations from intense rumbles all the way down to mild vibrations.
  • It’s a hands free device. Once inserted, your hands are available for other things and not fiddling around with a toy.
  • It’s waterproof. Enjoy it anywhere, even the shower!



  • It’s expensive. One of the highest cost toys I’ve reviewed.
  • Take some practice to get accustomed to the remote control and settings on the toy.

Read the full review of Hugo, right here.


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#3 Aneros Helix Syn

Syn is the prostate toy that started it all, for me. The very first one I purchased. It helped me learn about my body and how it responds to prostate play. It taught me how and when to move, and when to stop and be still.

With it, I learned the principles of hands free stimulation. And how to experience a prostate orgasm.

But I don’t use it much anymore, as I’ve graduated to bigger and better things. Syn does make an appearance every now and then, for nostalgia more than anything.


Aneros Helix Syn

The Aneros Helix Syn. Simple. Small. A great training device.



  • Very inexpensive
  • It’s simple. No batteries to charge or vibrators to stop working.
  • The #1 best toy for beginners. The slim diameter is perfect for rookies who aren’t used to inserting things into their butt.



  • It takes patience and practice to use. Some guys report having hard time getting off with it.
  • This thing is like cocaine. Tolerance builds very quickly. It doesn’t take long before this toy just isn’t enough anymore.


Read the full review of Syn, right here. For even more excitement from Aneros, read my review of the Vice here.


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#4. Njoy Pure Wand

There’s something about cold, hard unforgiving stainless steel that makes it so perfect for sex toys. It’s raw. It’s naughty. It’s bad ass.

The Pure Wand never gets old for me. It’s a timeless toy that never rests for too long. It’s just too awesome to leave alone.


The best thing about this toy?

I can precisely control the pressure on my prostate when I’m using it. You see, the toy acts like a lever when inserted. When I’m laying on my back, a simple press down will nudge the other end of the Wand up. This applies more pressure to my prostate.

If I want a lighter touch, I just lift up. This eases the pressure on my prostate.

All in all, this toy is kinda like an exotic Italian sports car. It’s firm and unforgiving, but in the right hands, amazing things can happen.



Njoy Wand review

The Njoy Pure Wand is a timeless classic. It will probably out live me…



  • Stainless toys are the ultimate for durability and will last decades.
  • Men and women can BOTH enjoy it! It’s like getting two toys for the price of one.
  • A snap to clean. Some hot soapy water does the trick every time.
  • No other toy is built like this. Applying and decreasing pressure during prostate play doesn’t get any easier.
  • The balls on each end are different sizes. Use the big one when feeling frisky.



  • Semi expensive. You get what you pay for. Sheer excellence.
  • It’s heavy! A hand is always required to keep it on the right spot.
  • Steel holds temperature very well. If this toy is in a cold room, it’s best to put it in warm water for a bit before play time.

Read the full review of the Pure Wand, right here.


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#5. L’Amourose Rosa Rouge

Last, but certainly not least, is the Rosa Rouge by L’Amourose. This toy is sophisticated. Like something designed by Coco Chanel. Looking at the picture below, one could swear that it flew in, straight from a Paris fashion show.


The best thing about this toy?

It has a nifty trick up its sleeve: it heats up! As far as I know, this is the only vibe that has this feature.

Personally, I think there’s (almost) nothing more uncomfortable than an ice cold sex toy. If it’s cold enough, it’s like jamming a dildo shaped ice cube up the butt. Not cool.

All those problems go away with this euro-style male vibrator. The operating temperature is perfect every time. It only takes a few moments for it to heat up, perfect for when I’m short on time and need to move quickly.


L'Amourose Rosa Rogue review

The L’Amourose Rosa Rouge. Elegant. Sophisticated. Stimulating.




  • It has a built in heating element, so it’s always at the right temperature.
  • Powerful vibrations. Right in line with LELO’s vibrators.
  • The flexible shaft is nice. Sometimes a completely rigid toy is a bit uncomfortable. Rouge solves this problem and it makes the toy a bit more comfortable that others.
  • It’s waterproof, so playtime can be virtually anywhere.



  • Expensive at north of $100 US
  • Charging is only available on the provided stand, which I’m not a huge fan of. I prefer to plug it in directly like most other toys. Not a deal breaker though.

Read the full Rouge review, right here.


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Meet the other prostate stimulators that didn’t make the cut for my top 5 list, right here.



Well, that wraps up my list of the top 5 prostate toys!


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Author: Dave

Hi, I'm Dave. And I'm fiend?!? No, not really. But, Kinda :)Actually, I'm just your average white collar guy who happens to have a soft spot for sexy WOMEN and HOT sex toys. Hence, these are my chosen topics for this blog.I'm fluent in 3 languages: English, Profanity and Sarcasm.I own a number of male sex toys, and my personal "toybox" is growing rapidly. But prostate toys are my favorite.So, enjoy the ride, and drop me a line if you have something to say!

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  1. Hi Dave, glad I found this really helpful site. A request for some advice if I may. I recently started taking an interest in my prostate, I’m 53 and it comes up in conversations. So I thought I’d buy a massager; not having played around there ever and not really reading up, i purchased a Rocks Off bad boy. On receipt I was shocked at its size. Liking a challenge I followed the advice and eventually managed to get it me, but couldnt get the last thick part in. After about 45 minutes of getting no pleasure from it, I gavevup and put it away. The following morning I tried again, somebpleasure but mostly frustration. So i read a little more and gave it another go in the afternoon and after about half an hour of sitting rocking on this thing I had what I can only describe as 5 mind blowing O’s one after the other. My body tensed until it could tense no more. Ibcouldnt wait to try again and several days later I did, but nothing, just frustration. I git the feeling of wanting to pee, but it didnt build tobanything despite repeating what id done previously. After 3 more attemptsbover the weeks I ourchased a Hugo. I gave that a shot today and despite the nice feeling I dont seem to be able to build to an orgasm. Sorry about the length of this but is this Normal?

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    • Dave

      Hi Phreeked:

      For starters, there really isn’t anything normal when it comes to prostate play. Every guy is different!

      Hugo and the Bad Boy are two completely different toys. It may take some experimentation to find the right way to use your Hugo. But once you do, you won’t be disappointed! Stick with it and try different things. You’ll get there!

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  2. hello Dave…what are your tips for using the njoy pure wand…i bought it recently just looking for some tips on the best way to use it…havent tried it yet but want to…the best lube for it to

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    • Dave

      Good choice on the Pure Wand, one of my favorite toys.

      Since the Wand is stainless steel, you can use any lube you like. If you’re looking for the ultimate in long lasting slipperiness, you can’t go wrong with a silicone lube. Swiss Navy makes a killer lube, check it out here.

      For tips on how to use it, I recommend laying on your back, and using a rocking motion that goes in the direction of your body. Read how I use it, here.

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      • very cool….thanks for the info…ill try that

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  3. Hi Dave,

    I recently purchased a Loki Wave after reading your review. It feels great, and I consistently get off using it! However, I can’t *quite* seem to reach a full hands free orgasm with it. It’s like I get to the brink, and then…nothing. Any tips?

    Also, do you have a prefer nice between Hugo & Loki Wave? Was considering both, and may still add Hugo later. Any point to getting Hugo when I already have the wave?

    Thanks so much.

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    • Dave

      Hey Alex,

      Glad you are enjoying the Wave! Well, in my experience, Wave isn’t all that great for hands free play. The reticulating arm and the shape of the toy really don’t lend themselves to being a hands off toy.

      Hugo on the other hand works pretty well for hands free action. It does have a tendency to not stay firmly planted, though. It never pops all the way out, but it can be difficult to keep it on the “sweet spot”. To alleviate this, I like to use it while laying on my back, with my upper body propped up on a pillow. I can then sit on it so it stays in place.

      Hugo is a very different toy but is definitely better for hands off use. The wireless remote control is killer, in my opinion.

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  4. So I tried this last night for the first time and wow. For one thing I never felt like that in my life or never even imagined I could feel like that it was almost too good if that’s it sounds weird but it’s true. I was in complete shock like 4 hours so much happened I was grinding my teeth like crazy and I still am today I was shaking my legs were f****** shaking and seen me in my arms it was like two good man like I felt like I was hooked on some crazy drug.

    What really got me was that I could never could even imagine how good I could actually feel and I couldn’t even get out of the bed for an hour or two like it literally left me speechless woke up today and I’m still in shock. It’s like I’ve discovered this insanely awesome Secret I still don’t even believe it last night was crazy intense but good. Now today I know what to expect and I’m really really really nervous so I only had it for 10 minutes and had to take a break and I can’t stop grinding my teeth are my legs can’t stop shaking it’s late mine says your system is on overload and not saying it’s bad but holy s*** this is so crazy stuff.

    High anxiety when I first start more than I’ve ever had and the weird thing is within seconds all of that goes with it it’s almost like too fast too intense but you want warm it’s freakin crazy on the head to. Other than that I woke up this morning feeling totally different better more energy less stressed like last night I got that high from the pleasure that response I don’t remember and I wasn’t even on drugs.

    It might take some time to get used to it’s almost like learning that you just want five billion dollars that same feeling. Black guy holding a big secret or stressed for pleasure for everything and nobody else knows about it just a select few every aspect of it that’s crazy crazy good though. Like I think about it all day and it’s so awesome but yet when it comes time to do it I would rather jump off a bridge it’s so contradictory it’s weird actually do you ever get used to it like the intensity.. even thinking about it earlier I started to shake and got a bit nauseous can you imagine that nervous over feeling that good like I said it’s a feeling I never had but yeah do you ever get used to it someone or is it like this crazy head games trouble every day til you actually do it.

    Hot last night I spent the first twenty minutes trying it I couldn’t get up for a half hour I can give it like I keep saying I keep saying I can’t believe it it’s like a dream how can I get rid of this insane anxiety crazy for doing it I actually get a bit nervous cuz I know I’m going to feel like good did a lot of drugs but none of them may be nervous that I felt that good will I have her address this is definitely a life-changer on my mood on everything it’s crazy again LOL

    any advice and once again I’m here saying well and grinding my teeth just thinking about it it’s an insane addiction I know. it’s definitely the craziest hand intense pleasure for addiction and it’s drug free my mind can’t get over it addiction what I can say was it’s the same or higher than any drug it’s crazy it literally took me to Extasy actually Beyond ecstasy which I didn’t know existed until last night without taking drugs.

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    • Dave

      Glad you’re enjoying yourself Timmy!

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  5. Hi Dave, I wanted to comment on why there are rumors of knockoffs on Amazon and why some manufactures do not honor warranties on things purchased from there. It is well known that Amazon provides order fulfillment for some sellers. When they do this all items with the same sku go into a communal “bin” if a fake has the same sku printed on it as a genuine item, since some fakes appear high quality it might go into the bin with a genuine item. Amazon could therefore inadvertently sell a fake even though it is sold by them if a fake item has been sent to them from other sellers and then placed with Amazon’s own stock. Hope this helps anyone wondering what the issue with Amazon is!

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    • Dave

      Ryan, thanks so much for clarifying this!

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