To douche, or not to douche?

THAT is the question!

One topic that I haven’t really talked much about in my Prostate Play Series is rectal douching. Also known as anal cleansing. There’s something unsettling when you pull your favorite anal toy out of your ass, and notice that bit of creamy poo stuck on it. Eeewwww, right?

Well, for me it’s not a huge deal. It’s part of the territory and I’ve come to accept it. I personally don’t do it on a regular basis, because I’ve found I don’t really need to. When I follow the steps in my Using a Prostate Stimulator guide, I rarely have a problem. If I’m just too damn horny and can’t take the time for a shower, well, a mildly shitty situation can happen. Again, no big deal.


So why am I writing this?

One of my awesome readers brought this to my attention recently. And he was right, I don’t cover the topic with any substance. So, I decided to put a short post together, to explain the concept and why it might be good for other players.

Here’s what he had to say:

I just discovered your site via the article on Alternet. Kudos to you for embarking on this worthy endeavor. I particularly like your casual fun manner of speaking. You are going to be enhancing people’s lives beyond belief.

I’m a long time ass aficionado. I’ve never come across any sort of published information regarding ass play so straight forwardly and clearly explained. Well done! (I haven’t actually done a lot of research, but I really do like your style.)

Although I’ve only just perused the site, I’d like to mention one issue I have yet to see covered; that is the issue of douching as a part of the cleansing preparation. Internal cleanliness, at the very least, the rectum, is a great enhancement to a fully enjoyable experience.

I realize this is the big “ick” factor as regards preparation, but the sooner it’s “de-icked” the better. And it’s better to deal with the “ick” before one begins the activity, rather than during or after. (It can be a real buzz-kill on the afterglow…)

This is an issue I feel is not discussed nearly enough. It’s the big unspoken ICK, but, like so many other icky things, it gets easier with practice.

Regardless, I again congratulate you on your most excellent undertaking and look forward to seeing how it develops.

Good luck,

Sage advice, friend! Thanks for your input!


What the heck is douching?

It’s a simple matter of utilizing water pressure to cleanse out your area. Women sometimes use it in their vaginas. Both men and women can do it to clean out the anal cavity.

This is a very useful practice to ensure cleanliness before anal activities. This includes prostate play.


douche or no douche


How do I do it?

Easy. The first thing you need to do is grab the right device for the job. Sometimes called enema bulbs or rectal syringes, they’re readily available from your favorite online retailer or local drug store. And they’re cheap. You can generally find a decent one for less than $10 US.

If you’re searching online, just type in rectal bulb syringe. There are a million options to choose from.



To use it, follow these steps:

  1. Get your enema bottle ready to go. Fill it with lukewarm water.
  2. Stand over the toilet or in the tub.
  3. Lube the tip and insert into your anus.
  4. Squeeze the bulb, then release. This shoots the water into your asshole, washing out all those nasties. Keep doing it until the water comes out clean and clear. You’ll probably need to refill it a couple of times.


Here’s a great “how to douche” video

It doesn’t get any clearer than this. The video starts at the douche part. If you want to watch the whole thing, this is a great instructional vid for finding your prostate too.



To wrap things up…

A clean asshole is definitely beneficial when playing around down there. And anal douching is about the best way to make that happen. Cleanliness is next to godliness.



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Author: Dave

Hi, I'm Dave. And I'm fiend?!? No, not really. But, Kinda :) Actually, I'm just your average white collar guy who happens to have a soft spot for sexy WOMEN and HOT sex toys. Hence, these are my chosen topics for this blog. I'm fluent in 3 languages: English, Profanity and Sarcasm. I own a number of male sex toys, and my personal "toybox" is growing rapidly. But prostate toys are my favorite. So, enjoy the ride, and drop me a line if you have something to say! Hey hey...I just joined Reddit! /u/mrracy

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  1. Just a thought, but I purchased a bidet, which attaches to a normal toilet. I use this to wash it and it feels really clean. Should I try to douche and see if that is better or stick with the douch?

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    • Dave

      I’ll say that if the bidet gets you cleaned out, go ahead and use that. It’s whatever you’re comfortable with!

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