Ever had your prostate milked?
Most men haven’t. If you’re one of those guys, that’s perfectly ok. If you’re a veteran, that’s cool too. Hopefully you’ll find a few golden nuggets of information for guys (and gals) of all experience levels.
In the next ten minutes, you’ll learn everything you ever wanted to know, but were afraid to ask about man milking. Get ready for…
ANSWERED: Four most common questions:
- What the heck is this black magic?
- How does it feel?
- How do I do it?
- Will I get an erection?
- Should it make me cum?
- What’s it like after I get off?
- Does it mean I’m gay, or less of a man?
I’ll be using the terms prostate and man milking interchangeably. Some folks refer to it as the process by which he drains his prostatic fluid for health reasons. Other guys, like me, do it because it feels fucking awesome!
First, know your target
Before you do anything, you need to know where your male g spot resides. In the world of sex lingo, this area is called the “P-Spot,” but it’s officially called the prostate gland. It’s generally located about two knuckles deep, inside a guy’s ass.
I say generally because it can be slightly deeper for tall guys or slightly shallower for short guys. We’re not talking a great deal of variation here, just a half a knuckle, give or take. For example, I’m about 190 cm tall and mine is about 2.5 knuckles in.
Regardless, it’s important to remember that every man’s body is unique. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different depths or different devices to find the feeling that works best for you.
Here’s how you stimulate it
The idea here is to rub and apply mild pressure to this area, which brings forth wicked, exotic sensations. This is where the term “milking” comes from. Akin to milking a cow, the rubbing motion is what causes the pleasurable sensations, which can pave the way to an incredible prostate orgasm.
The reason it feels so good is because a guy’s prostate, and anal cavity in general, is a VERY sensitive area, full of nerve endings. With this sensitivity, sexual pleasure reaches an entirely new level.
I have a superb guide that will explain how to use some of the most common prostate massagers, right here.
Fingers vs. Toys
Either one will work, but I suggest you do it with a specialized device called a prostate toy.
After sticking things in my ass for a few years now, I’ve learned a few things.
- Start small. A finger is a great way to get acquainted. Then move on to a dedicated toy.
- If you decide to purchase a toy, get one from a reputable manufacturer, like these.
- Use plenty of lube. Suggestions for every imaginable type can be found here.
- It’s always more fun with a trusted partner!
At the very beginning, after the fingers are inserted and the massage starts, I feel a “buzz” that envelopes the entire mid section of my body. From my thighs to the upper abdomen. I can’t say it feels awesome at this point, and if I’m not completely relaxed, it’s a bit uncomfortable. However, a few deep breaths will make the discomfort pass.
As the session progresses, the nudging and bumping of the finger against my prostate feels divine. I can actually feel sensations in my penis, although it’s not being touched. Very odd, but wickedly erotic.
If a vibrating stimulator is being used, the sensations are even more intense. For me, when it’s done right, I have an urge to pee, but I never do. I have literally no control when I cum…it just happens. I’ve found it’s best to just enjoy, relax and let it happen.
When I’m getting close to climax, a very warm feeling comes over me. At this point, I know it’s VERY close.
This whole process, from start to finish can take as little as 10 minutes, up to an hour or more. It totally depends on my state of mind, my level of relaxation and the skill of the person performing the massage. Like any other sexual activity, a little foreplay can enhance the experience and makes things happen MUCH faster.
Think of it as psychological submission
Having another person (girlfriend or boyfriend) massage your p-spot is a mind blowing experience. You’re basically submitting to this person and allowing them to dominate your body.
Even the alpha male will find himself smitten and submissive when his partner is penetrating his rectum.
This is the fun part. It sounds complicated, but it really isn’t. Follow along…
There are two ways to do this. Internal and external. I’ll be covering the internal method, because it’s far and away the best way to go. Why? Because it’s the best way to get off.
With the external method, the perineum is massaged, applying pressure to the prostate which lies nearby. In my experience this fun, but just doesn’t do it for me anymore. It was exciting at first, when it was new and fresh.
Now that I’ve shoved more than a few toys up my ass, it’s boring, and there’s no going back. It’s great for beginners who are nervous about sticking things in their butt for pleasure. It’s like an appetizer before diving in to the main course.
Another gray area here. For some guys, yes; and some guys, no. In my personal experience it’s mostly a state of mind. If I’m really turned on, I’ll almost always get a diamond hard erection. At a minimum, I will have a semi flaccid, waving penis during the session.
Also, based on my personal experience, the resulting pleasure is pretty much the same whether I’m hard or soft. This is the beauty of this activity:
Even guys with erectile dysfunction (ED) can thoroughly enjoy this activity!
I’ll start by saying that traditional orgasm, where you blow your load all over the place, is entirely different from this type of stimulation. Hence, there usually isn’t an ejaculation when getting milked.
NOTE: For many guys, this causes them to produce tons of pre cum.
I’m one of those guys: a leaker. Always have been. The moment a woman touches my cock or even kisses me heavily, I’ll start to drip. It’s a bit embarrassing sometimes because the amount is so much, it’ll show right through a pair of jeans. Yikes!
It’s quite common for my erect rod to drip copious amounts of pre jizz throughout the entire process.
For other guys, they don’t drip a drop. I have no idea why some guys leak and some don’t. But it really doesn’t matter either way. Every guy is different, so it’s expected that his sexual responses are different as well.
Lots of Mr. Racy readers have emailed me over the years, asking these questions: “Is it normal if I don’t have any pre cum?” or “Is it normal if I have TONS of pre cum?”
I believe that it makes no difference at all! As long as it feels good, keep on milking. There is no normal or abnormal here. It’s all about his pleasure. Nothing else.
BONUS TIP #1: If you wanna cum REALLY, REALLY hard, follow up with a vigorous cock stroking after getting milked. It’ll be one of the best orgasms you’ve ever had.
BONUS TIP #2: While you’re masturbating and getting close to climax, have your partner rub your prostate until you ejaculate. Keep jacking until you blow your load. You might just enter the mystical realm of total Nirvana. A higher level of orgasmic goodness.
Post massage, I feel incredibly relaxed. Much more so than a normal orgasm. Give me a hot shower and put me to bed! I’ll sleep like a baby all night long.
For hours I experience a complete sense of “relaxed satisfaction.” Totally content. Completely happy and fulfilled. This afterglow persists for a longer period of time than traditional sex alone, in my experience.
The answer is a resounding NO!! Even if you’re a hetero manly-man, it doesn’t change a single thing about you or your sexuality. If it feels good, and you’re comfortable with it, go for it!
Have a look at this reader submission, right here. See what Dan had to say about his experience of prostate massage with another man. Oh, and did I mention that Dan is also a straight, happily married guy?
So what are you waiting for? Get busy and start practicing! Man milking is one of the most awesome sexual experiences available. Your body is your temple, and you can and should enjoy it to the fullest.
Read more about all this, below.
Here’s more prostate stuff!
- How to locate your prostate. read more
- How to choose the right toy. read more
- Here’s the PROPER way to use a P-spot toy. read more
- Should you douche? read more
- ALWAYS use the right lube. read more
- Try these tips if you’re having trouble getting off. read more
- Toys I love to use. read more