Guys, getting a prostate massage from another man doesn’t mean you’re gay.
Oct21

Guys, getting a prostate massage from another man doesn’t mean you’re gay.

  I get lots of emails regarding prostate play. Surprising, right? Every once in a while I get a message that REALLY piques my interest. A message that stands out from the crowd and really gets my wheels turning. An email that makes me just sit and go hmmmm…. that’s interesting! Today I’m including one of those from a gentleman that I’ll refer to as “Dan”.   Meet Dan For reference, he is a...

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Stimulate your prostate without penetration. Try external massage.
Jun08

Stimulate your prostate without penetration. Try external massage.

If you’re not comfortable with using a prostate toy, like the LELO Hugo, another way to manually excite the gland is by practicing external prostate massage.  Anal penetration is not required with this method. The P-spot is rubbed from the outside, usually by applying pressure to the perineum.   The wonderful perineum The perineum is an erogenous zone for both men AND women, but we’ll be discussing men.  It’s...

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NEVER feel ashamed of anal play
Jun08

NEVER feel ashamed of anal play

I received a question the other day from one of my readers. After mulling it over for a few days, I thought it would be a great idea to cover it with a quick post.   Here was the question: “I don’t know why, but i feel guilty about playing with my prostate. Have you ever felt like this before?”   It was touching for me personally, because I’ve been there. I know how it feels to be ashamed. Ashamed to...

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Prostate orgasm: the ultimate way for a guy to get off!
Jun08

Prostate orgasm: the ultimate way for a guy to get off!

Prostate orgasm is the grand finale for any guy that practices prostate play. This is the pinnacle of the experience. The icing on the cake!  When combined with other forms of masturbation (like jacking off), there will be loads of “icing” shooting from his cock, if done properly! Get out the towels and the wet wipes, because things could get messy…in a good way.   Today I’ll expand a bit on this awesome...

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Anal play safety precautions
Jun04

Anal play safety precautions

I think we can ALL agree that pleasuring the male prostate and the resulting orgasm are the ultimate sexual experiences a man can have.  But care must be taken so we don’t hurt ourselves.  Prostate stimulation isn’t dangerous.  However, by playing safe (lots of lube and a gentle touch) you can virtually eliminate any chance of injury down there.   Follow these 3 rules to stay safe Only stick things up your ass that...

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What’s the best sex lube?
May18

What’s the best sex lube?

A good sex lube makes life MUCH easier There must be a thousand different lubes on the market, all claiming to be the best. There are water based, oil based, silicone based and desensitizing, just to name a few. There are enough different types, brands and options to make one’s head spin. So let’s dispel the myths and get straight to the facts. By the time you finish reading this guide, you’ll know exactly how to...

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Guys, get your mind blown with prostate milking. Yeah, it’s that good.
May17

Guys, get your mind blown with prostate milking. Yeah, it’s that good.

Ever had your prostate milked? Most men haven’t. If you’re one of those guys, that’s perfectly ok. If you’re a veteran, that’s cool too. Hopefully you’ll find a few golden nuggets of information for guys (and gals) of all experience levels. In the next ten minutes, you’ll learn everything you ever wanted to know, but were afraid to ask about man milking. Get ready for…    ...

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Tickle your prostate with these AWESOME massagers!
May17

Tickle your prostate with these AWESOME massagers!

Choosing a good prostate massager can be a challenge. If you’re new to this type of masturbation, it can be a daunting task to sift through the plethora of options available. It’s important to know what’s available to you and how to find the right one to suit your needs. With literally hundreds of stimulators to choose from, this buyers guide breaks it all down, to help make your purchase decision simple and stress...

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REVIEW: the L’Amourose Rosa Rouge. A heat up vibrator!
Dec24

REVIEW: the L’Amourose Rosa Rouge. A heat up vibrator!

Just when I thought I’d tried every male anal toy that really mattered, the L’Amourose Rosa Rouge found its way into my toy box. And man oh man, this thing is a doozy. The only thing that would make it better is a wireless remote control. This is more than just a butt toy…it’s a total anal vibration solution! Rouge, by the way, is French for the color red. How appropriate! In a nutshell, this device (almost)...

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REVIEW: the Lelo Hugo with wireless remote. 100% awesome!
Aug31

REVIEW: the Lelo Hugo with wireless remote. 100% awesome!

If I could sum up the Lelo Hugo in just a few words, it would go something like this: Holy Shit! This toy just ROCKED my world! Yeah, it’s that awesome. This is my very first wireless remote control prostate vibrator! And what a way to pop my cherry. I’ll also mention that it’s totally hands-free once it’s inserted. You only need one free hand for the remote. Oh yeah…   ATTENTION: Celebrate the New...

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LELO takes prostate pleasure to new heights with Loki and Hugo
Aug26

LELO takes prostate pleasure to new heights with Loki and Hugo

If you haven’t already heard, LELO just released 3 new prostate toys on August 25th, 2015. The good news: I got two of them! Loki and Hugo. Read more below. The awesome news: Hugo comes with a wireless remote control! The bad news: I haven’t had a chance to try them out…yet. The third one is called Bruno. I don’t have this one, but it’s identical to the Hugo, with one exception: Bruno doesn’t come...

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To douche, or not to douche?
Aug19

To douche, or not to douche?

THAT is the question! One topic that I haven’t really talked much about in my Prostate Play Series is rectal douching. Also known as anal cleansing. There’s something unsettling when you pull your favorite anal toy out of your ass, and notice that bit of creamy poo stuck on it. Eeewwww, right? Well, for me it’s not a huge deal. It’s part of the territory and I’ve come to accept it. I personally...

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How to avoid toxic sex toys. Only buy phthalate-free.
Aug03

How to avoid toxic sex toys. Only buy phthalate-free.

I’ve been writing about male sex toys for a while now, covering various devices such as male masturbators, sex dolls, and prostate toys. One thing I haven’t thoroughly covered is sex toy safety. Specifically, how to avoid devices that could be harmful to you or your environment.   Intro As time passes, we as a society have become more conscious about our health and what we put in our bodies. Nearly every type of food...

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REVIEW: the P-Spot male dildo by Tantus
Jul29

REVIEW: the P-Spot male dildo by Tantus

The P-Spot male dildo by Tantus is a SERIOUS piece of sex hardware! Even for a semi pro like me, this thing is challenging. It’s big. It’s bad. It’s thick. This is heavy duty equipment designed for heavy duty prostate milking.   Experienced players only. Beginners should probably avoid this one! NOTE: The folks at Tantus were kind enough to send me this big ass male dildo, free of charge, for an honest review....

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Unable to reach prostate orgasm? Try these expert tips to get over the hump.
Apr01

Unable to reach prostate orgasm? Try these expert tips to get over the hump.

Gentlemen, are you having difficulty achieving male prostate orgasm? Prostate pleasure is a topic that I’m passionate about.  I love it.  I enjoy all the tingly sensations.  And I ALWAYS look forward to my next super-O. Unfortunately, there are lots of guys who just can’t seem to reach orgasm via prostate stimulation.  They’ve been playing with anal toys and butt plugs, using their fingers, and a whole host of other...

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How to find your prostate (male G spot):  the first step to bliss
Mar22

How to find your prostate (male G spot): the first step to bliss

If you’re new to prostate pleasure, one of your first questions should be: “where is your prostate or male G spot located?”   Here’s a step by step guide to help you locate it: Have a bowel movement.  This will ensure your rectum is cleaned out and ready to go. Wash up, or take a shower.  Anal play is best when everything is clean down there. Trim those nails!  File down any sharp edges.  The last thing you...

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7 must see videos about massaging the prostate.  Some funny.  Some crazy.  All worth watching.
Feb24

7 must see videos about massaging the prostate. Some funny. Some crazy. All worth watching.

Prostate play videos?  Anyone? Here’s a collection of my favorites from around the web.  Let me know if you have any suggestions.  I’ll gladly add them to this list!   From the Conan Show on TBS Let’s start with a video from Conan on TBS.  I’ve always loved his comedic style, and this episode is no exception.  But…an interview with the always delicious Sex Expert, Dr. Jennifer Berman, is definitely...

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Here’s how to use a prostate stimulator, the RIGHT way
Feb12

Here’s how to use a prostate stimulator, the RIGHT way

Preparation and massage techniques are important There is lots of great information on the web about how to CHOOSE a prostate stimulation device.  But, when it comes to USING one, there isn’t a lot of good info. The most common question I get is how to massage your prostate! So I decided to write a guide of my own! If you’re new to this, then you’ve landed on the right page!  Even if you’re an advanced user,...

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