REVIEW: the P-Spot male dildo by Tantus

The P-Spot male dildo by Tantus is a SERIOUS piece of sex hardware! Even for a semi pro like me, this thing is challenging. It’s big. It’s bad. It’s thick. This is heavy duty equipment designed for heavy duty prostate milking.

 

Experienced players only. Beginners should probably avoid this one!

advanced-level

NOTE: The folks at Tantus were kind enough to send me this big ass male dildo, free of charge, for an honest review. This has no bearing on how I feel about the toy, positive or negative.

 

Before we get started…

This is the second device from Tantus that I’ve had the pleasure to use. The first was the Prostate Play, which was just ok. The P-Spot happens to be the first dildo I’ve used. I’m accustomed to toys designed specifically for prostate play, so this was new territory for me.

 

It’s essentially your standard dildo, but the tip is angled to apply more direct pressure to the prostate. Get ready to shoot MASSIVE loads.

 

tantus p-spot base

This is the base of P-Spot. Pretty sexy, eh?

 

This thing is BIG!! For guys that are accustomed to big stuff, the P-Spot probably isn’t a big deal. For me, however, it’s STILL intimidating. It took a little work to fit it in my back door at first.

Since it doesn’t have a tapered tip, it’s a bit more challenging to pop it in. Because of this, it’s critical to be well lubed and well relaxed.

That initial sensation of getting the massive ball is a little uncomfortable. It truly feels like it’s stretching out my hole.

Once it’s in, it slides right down to the first notch on the shaft, which happens to be the right depth for me. That massive bulbous head feels like it connects DIRECTLY to my prostate. Then that warm fuzzy feeling overcomes the entire mid section of my body. Let the good times begin.

 

Goooooood laaaaawwwwd, it feels good once it’s properly seated.

I love that full feeling that comes with a larger device, and this one fits the bill perfectly. In fact, it’s almost too much for me. Almost…but not quite.

This definitely isn’t my daily driver. I keep it for special occasions, like when I’m really fucking horny. The last time I used it was the night of my and my girlfriend’s anniversary. Loads of heavenly orgasms for sure.

 

P-Spot male dildo

 

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Table of contents

  1. The packaging
  2. Specifications
  3. The silicone dildo
  4. Recommended lubes
  5. How it feels
  6. How to use it
  7. How to clean it
  8. Where to buy it

 

 

Packaging

I love zero-frustration packaging. I hate the heat sealed, bullet proof plastic packages that require a military intervention just to blast them open. Fortunately, Tantus has been great with their products, and I have been able to get all of them open without getting a hernia.

 

 

tantus p-spot
tantus p-spot

 

Specifications

Did I mention that this baby is big? If you’re a beginner with anal play this probably isn’t the toy for you. Unless you have some really big balls and feel you can handle it. If that’s the case, go for it. You’re more of a man than I.

  • Maximum diameter – 1.7 inches on middle of the shaft, fucking BIG. The bulbous tip is 1.5 inches.
  • Maximum length – 7 inches. More than enough to reach any guys prostate.

The silicone has a matte finish. Very luxurious. Very comfortable. Easy to clean.

It’s somewhat rigid, but flexible enough to bend. Perfect for nearly any anal activity.

This toy is phthalate-free! Read more about why this is important.

 

The Silicone Dildo

This is pure, 100% medical grade silicone. And, in my opinion, Tantus silicone is the best on the market. It’s the perfect blend, not matched even by the famous Aneros product line.

 

This stuff is special because it feels great, it’s durable, and it’s super easy to clean.

 

One of the really cool things about this toy is that it works as a strap-on. Yep, your partner can hook it up to a harness.

I’ve tried this, and I HIGHLY recommend it! I never thought I’d see the day where my girlfriend was fucking ME from behind. It was unnerving at first, but I quickly got used to it. She’s a real pro!

 

tantus p-spot base

The flat bottom is great for sitting on a table. Or, your partner can put it in a harness and fuck your brains out. Your choice!

 

Recommended lubes

I ALWAYS recommend water based lubes. Silicone lube does not play well with silicone toys. Check out the details.

 

 

How it feels

This is the ultimate for those who like a full rectum. With the 1.5 inch ball head and 1.7 inch shaft, nothing has ever filled me up like this one. NOTHING. I know there are bigger devices out there, but this is about as big as I can personally go.

The feeling of that first ball going in is…how should I say it…wonderfully uncomfortable? Yep, it feels great once it’s in, but getting there is a bit uncomfortable for me.

Then again, that discomfort really turns me on. It’s kinky. And hot. And naughty. The perfect prelude to gushing prostate orgasms.

When first pushing it in, there is a slight feeling of discomfort. I can’t lie about that. Since the tip is round, instead of tapered, it pays to be loose and relaxed back there. But once it’s in position for about 5 minutes, it’s all good.

 

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How to use it

I had a rather unusual experience the first time I used the P-Spot…I had a prostate orgasm on the first try! I’ve used A LOT of different toys, and it’s a rare thing for one to get me off on the first go. Not sure if I was lucky, or good, or what. But it absolutely blew my mind. I believe it was the combination of the large dildo filling me up and the rush of anxiety I felt because it was so damn big!

After blowing a few long white ropes of jizz all over my towel, I was 100% spent. Reduced to a quivering jelly for about 10 minutes after.

Anyway, back to the review!

For me, this dildo takes a little more work to use it properly. If I’m going solo, I have to be patient, especially when working it in there for the first time. As I mentioned before, this thing is bigger that average, so I need to prepare for it ahead of time by relaxing and following my warm up routine.

My favorite position to use when flying solo is laying on my side with one leg pulled up toward my chest. I just lube everything up, make sure my sphincter is loosened up and pop it in. It’s always a bit uncomfortable at first, but it always gets better.

Now, once the ball tip slides down through the rectal opening, it will stop. The tension in the rim of the asshole subsides at this point, and there is a warm, relaxing feeling down there. After this, all it takes is a little more pressure to push it the rest of the way in.

It will then stop at at the “notch” near the middle of the toy. This is the sweet spot, and for me, the head is resting in the perfect spot to begin the massage. I know I’m there when a warm, fuzzy feeling overcomes that part of my torso. This is where that completely full feeling begins. It’s marvelous!

I really don’t move it in and out. I just wiggle it around, moving it slightly back and forth to press and release against my p-spot. A little in and out is ok, but not too much.

For me, it’s best to keep the pressure on. At this point, it’s a matter of doing what feels good. Then, keep doing it until you’re finished and can’t take it anymore. It’s that simple!

 

tantus p-spot male dildo

Notice the ridge, about halfway down the toy. Once inserted, it tends to rest right there, which is also about the right depth for hitting the prostate.

 

Here’s one thing I don’t like about it: sometimes it likes to rotate while it’s inside. This is a result of the round shape, and it’s pretty much unavoidable.

When it rotates, that curved tip moves away from the prostate. This defeats the purpose of that tip. In order to keep it in the right position, it’s necessary to keep the Tantus label (stamped into the base of the dildo) up toward your balls. If you’re using it with a partner, they can make sure it stays just right.

Alternatively, if you don’t mind being pegged by your partner, this thing loads up nicely into a Tantus harness. It definitely won’t rotate when it’s strapped in.

 

How to clean it

Cleaning is so simple. I just put mine in the sink with very warm water. Rub some mild body soap onto it. Then rub and wash it with a washcloth. Over and done in about 1 minute. Let it air dry and put it back in the box.

Alternatively, after washing, you can boil it. Yep, put it on your stove with some boiling water. Rest assured that there won’t be any nasties left after that. I personally don’t feel it’s necessary to go to these lengths for sterilization, but to each their own.

 

 

 

Where to buy it

Amazon has the best price I’ve seen online.
**Grab a P-Spot for yourself, right here from Amazon.

 

 

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Dave

Author: Dave

Hi, I'm Dave. And I'm a....sex fiend?!? No, not really. But, Kinda :) Actually, I'm just your average white collar guy who happens to have a soft spot for sexy WOMEN and HOT sex toys. Hence, these are my chosen topics for this blog. I'm fluent in 3 languages: English, Profanity and Sarcasm. I own a number of male sex toys, and my personal "toybox" is growing rapidly. But prostate toys are my favorite. So, enjoy the ride, and drop me a line if you have something to say! Hey hey...I just joined Reddit! /u/mrracy

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  1. Thanks for this page! Recently I got into self massaging my prostate after reading here. No stranger here to P-spot orgasms. I had a buddy for 10 years and he taught me how to get fucked and love it. Few times every month we would get together and do each other. He moved away so after a little research I bought a L’arque Massager that works great and a NJoy. Seriously thinking of adding a P-spot male dildo to my play time. I am used to larger because my buddy was very big and he would make my muscles clench him involuntarily after maybe 5 minutes of being inside me. Is there a P-spot dildo with good width and length that also vibrates? During my sessions I alternate between the 2 toys I already own. Have to be careful of the NJoy, I fucked myself one day for quite a long time with the large ball end and my prostate was sore for several days. I recommend every man learn how to do massage. The orgasms are plain wild and if you do not cum during a session and jack off later you get a mind blowing orgasm.

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    • Dave

      Hello George:

      Thanks for stopping by.

      I haven’t used a prostate toy of this size that also vibrates. I honestly don’t think I could handle it for long 🙂

      I found this Large Remote Control Butt Plug on Amazon. Looks like it may have the girth you’re looking for, but I have no experience with it personally. Also, it’s more of an anal plug, rather than a prostate massager. What you’re looking for may be hard to find.

      Sorry I couldn’t be of much help. If you find something that fits the bill, please come back and let me know. I’d love to review something like this and post the results here.

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      • Today I tried my Tantus P-Spot dildo for the first time. It arrived this past Monday along with the Loki Wave. Mine came with a little silver bullet that you insert at the base. The vibrations are pretty good and there are about 7 choices to chose from.

        I am no stranger to anal intercourse but as Dave says this thing is big. I used my Loki Wave for about 10 minutes to get ready for this intruder. It was still a challenge to get the ball in and when it popped in there was the mixed pain with pleasure I like. It slowly slid in me and by the time my sphincter met the ridge midway I was really hot and deep breathing. I decided if I could get the whole thing in and I did. Then I pulled back out to the ridge as I knew that is where it needed to be. My prostate really likes this thing! During the course of my play I pulled it all the way out 3 different times and it was still a shock going back in. I laid on my back with my legs pulled up and moved my hips back and forth feeling the ball work me good. I mixed that with pulling the dildo back and forth a few inches. I took my time and did some exploring too. The length and width work well for me and that ball…ohh man! I am glad I have this to add to my toy collection. I had one long hot orgasm that covered my chest in jizz. Remember to relax a few minutes before pulling out. I was very tight for a few minutes after orgasm. I highly recommend this toy too!!!!!

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