All Things Considered...Dating in San Francisco is Pretty Good

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boyPablo

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You can say a lot about San Francisco as an imperfect city, but very few people can say that it's a bad city for dating.

It's actually pretty good and people have voted it in the Top 10 cities for single people in the US.

Personally, I think it's a great place to walk (like on dates), tour the city, and just see lots of beautiful sites.

Also, I think it's a pretty well known fact that there aren't as many men in San Francisco and yet lots of single women of all ages.

I don't know about you but I've enjoyed being single and seeing the Golden City, and meeting lots of beautiful and intelligent people.
 
San Francisco is not as easy as you make it sound. I'm not exactly Joe Blow, and I'd like to think I'm fairly good looking and make OK money.

But these are working professionals usually and that means they don't have a lot of time to date and do probably put forth low effort. I find a lot of big city people are bad at compromising, communicating, and fighting to keep the relationship alive.

It's more like, 'I don't like you anymore, see ya around.'

Beautiful and intelligent maybe. But they come with issues!

I mean everyone in SF has a public Facebook page and a secret Flure, AdultFriendFinder or Ashley Madison profile, does that tell you everything you need to know?
 
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I lived in San Francisco for a while when I was at USF.

And I talked to a lot of people, esp women who had a hard time finding partners.

But it's not a ratio thing.

It's more like San Francisco dating is hard because everyone works so much and the cost of living is mad.

You like need 2 jobs just to pay bills, and gotta whore yourself out just to go to the movies. Well, not literally. But like symbolically you do.

I knew a guy who worked 70 hour weeks and I was like dude how are you not dead. And he said, "I am dead inside. Luckily my dick still works without my brain though."

And he actually was good at the bar scene.

I was more of a traveler on weekends and I hit on womens in yoga groups, meetup events, charity walks, and dog parks. It's fairly easy cuz I like older women and San Francisco has a lot of bored career girls.

That's why it might be worth it to download Elite Singles or something because that's where a lot of them hide out.
 
I don't think I have enough $$$ to join Elite Singles.

Maybe Adult Friend Finder, but I don't really post online that much. I read the news and then kind of shut it all down. Takes up too much time trying to chat with people 24-7.
 
Adult Friend Finder is both a dating site and a social network. So you don't have to post all the time as long as you have a good bio and good photos. Preferably one of your face and not your junk.

I know it's not the rule there, plenty of dick picks. But just my advice. Ladies want to see your personality over your prick.
 
I mean maybe they want charm and wit and sophistication.

But I mean come on. The women there are NOT interested in serious dating is what I mean. They want the D, maybe just don't send them a dick pic first message?
 
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