Best Hookup Sites and Apps for Casual Sex

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forgetmeNot88

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I think it's time we discuss body count - but wait! Not like all time, or counting all the mistakes you made in college.

Just wondering how many of you have actually used hook up sites and apps for casual sex, and which ones were the best.

Not the best as in looking pretty, but actually led to you having a great one night stand, or girlfriend, or whatever.

Interested in doing an informal survey about hookup sites and seeing which ones have actually worked.

Because a lot of people really are starting to think online dating is a scam or a waste of time, myself included.
 
Bumble. And yes, I am a woman and can vouch for Bumble's one night stand capabilities. :giggle::coffee:

Bumble: Men can only speak to a woman after she likes his profile in return. Silences a lot of guys we would not be into. Also has business and platonic mode which is nice.

Adult Friend Finder: Lots of really handsome guys on here, buff and purely sexual. But if that's what you're looking for you won't be disappointed.

Fetlife: Really simple site, and yet really complex organization of like 100s of forums and niches. But yeah personal ads all over the place for sex.

Feeld: Great for meeting all sorts of people, LGBTQ, swingers, poly, etc.

Plenty of Fish: Mutual matches, live streaming shows, games, it's a nice little site.

Happn: Fun, because sometimes you match with somebody you met IRL and it feels like serendipity.

Hinge: Usually a brainy woman's goto site for meeting someone who FEELS like a long-term relationship but probably isn't.
 
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Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and Coffee Meets Bagel. I pretty much join all the free sites and copy paste my profile and photos. Facebook dating is also worth a look.

Zoosk and AFF also worked for me, but the price tag is not really worth it for me.

And eHarmony works too. I mean, dating a woman who wants to get married will get you laid. Just depends if you want that or not. Because if not, you'll have a bunch of angry exes, you dig?
 
LinkedIn.

Hahah just kidding. Or am I?

I actually like Bumble because of the BIZ and BFF mode. It's kinda like, I might date you later on, but for now I just wanna know if we can be friends and you can be cool about it.
 
I wonder if there's any difference between using regular dating apps like Tinder or Bumble (which have private chat) vs. using live stream dating apps like Zoosk and Plenty of Fish?

I kind of like streaming over private chat. It's less pressure, and it's natural if you use TikTok or Instagram. Dating one on one still feels kind of awkward.
 
I could see that actually. Zoosk and Dating.com and other sites that have live cams, they are really good at introducing people together. They can chat in real time, and girls of course are always the focus of attention. They can get like 100s of visitors watching them, answer questions. If she likes one person they continue on private chat.

I've always heard that women decide within a few moments if they would sleep with you or not. So in theory, Zoosk and sites like that are good for testing chemistry with people face to face.

Online chat is misleading. You might hate the person when you actually meet IRL
 
That reminds me of a pointless story, but one that applies here nonetheless.

I had two friends, separated by states. When I introduced them they really liked each other.

In fact, I'd say they fell into a lustful trance. They were very passionate, and longed for each other. They had phone sex, they made promises, they were the definition of hot and heavy!

And then lo and behold when they met in person, they instantly hated each other. They were annoyed at each other's mannerisms, irritated by their ideological points of view, and couldn't stand each other physically.

Go figure. They saw photos and everything. But chemistry is visual and kinesthetic and even scent and taste related. You really have to meet In Real Life before you know if you two have a chance.
 
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