Is Ashley Madison legit?
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eatingLeaves6565
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There are many more unhappily married women out there than you think.
Seeking and Ashley Madison probably would be where I would go if I was married, which I am not.
Tinder feels risky in contrast.
Seeking and Ashley Madison probably would be where I would go if I was married, which I am not.
Tinder feels risky in contrast.
MenITrustFan
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I assure you all of one thing. Yes, there are really married women lurking on Ashley Madison.
Women join free and have nothing to lose, whether they use an obscured photo or a fake photo entirely.
The issue is, they hardly answer any of the men who textually storm them as soon as they post a profile. I'm talking 100s of messages that probably go unanswered so they can reach out to 1 or 2. And that's a big if because some months they might not answer anybody.
But it's a little immature to think there are no women on Ashley Madison just because women seem uninterested in responding to every message.
How many of those introductory messages are just "Hey" or "Hi" anyway?
I'd suggest men just try to up their game a little and see if they get more response from the Ashley Madison lurkers.
Women join free and have nothing to lose, whether they use an obscured photo or a fake photo entirely.
The issue is, they hardly answer any of the men who textually storm them as soon as they post a profile. I'm talking 100s of messages that probably go unanswered so they can reach out to 1 or 2. And that's a big if because some months they might not answer anybody.
But it's a little immature to think there are no women on Ashley Madison just because women seem uninterested in responding to every message.
How many of those introductory messages are just "Hey" or "Hi" anyway?
I'd suggest men just try to up their game a little and see if they get more response from the Ashley Madison lurkers.
forgetmeNot88
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Maybe you're right, Men.
But even if your theory is correct, that sounds like some entitled snotty elitist women who are not interested in meeting anyone. So it's still kind of pointless to try, if she's already disqualifying you as soon as she scans your profile.
I've written 500 word messages to women because I loved their profile. And guess what? No response. So I don't think it's just a matter of dudes saying "HI." Most dudes are smarter than that now.
But even if your theory is correct, that sounds like some entitled snotty elitist women who are not interested in meeting anyone. So it's still kind of pointless to try, if she's already disqualifying you as soon as she scans your profile.
I've written 500 word messages to women because I loved their profile. And guess what? No response. So I don't think it's just a matter of dudes saying "HI." Most dudes are smarter than that now.
MaybeYesterday778
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I might suggest that married women who cheat and want a purely sexual relationship from a very select group of men, are not the most sensitive people you will ever meet.
In context then, I do agree with MenITrustFan, who implies that there are more women checking out Ashley Madison than we know. They just don't always get in touch with the men chasing them. A woman's passion is a very complicated thing and not every possible match works.
It's remarkable to me how sensitive some of these Ashley Madison groupies (men) can be, when they don't get the attention they feel they deserve.
In context then, I do agree with MenITrustFan, who implies that there are more women checking out Ashley Madison than we know. They just don't always get in touch with the men chasing them. A woman's passion is a very complicated thing and not every possible match works.
It's remarkable to me how sensitive some of these Ashley Madison groupies (men) can be, when they don't get the attention they feel they deserve.
forgetmeNot88
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OK but beyond that, the Ashley Madison site is just so lame and so cheap.
No video chat. Photo editing tools I guess, but no streaming, no fun games or ice breakers.
Just profiles and a very over-confident suggestion of privacy and anonymity.
I feel like the site is lacking in really cool features and that's why people don't "get along" as well as other sites like Bumble or Hinge.
No video chat. Photo editing tools I guess, but no streaming, no fun games or ice breakers.
Just profiles and a very over-confident suggestion of privacy and anonymity.
I feel like the site is lacking in really cool features and that's why people don't "get along" as well as other sites like Bumble or Hinge.
bananasplitGuy
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Yeah but AshleyMadison is just a hookup site.
And if you want to meet up for a one night stand you don't need to spend 200 hours online getting to know someone's soul. It's just photos, chat briefly, meet up, have sex, and then forget you ever knew each other.
It doesn't need high tech technology, especially considering how many guys could get blackmailed or scammed for having an adulterous video chat.
And if you want to meet up for a one night stand you don't need to spend 200 hours online getting to know someone's soul. It's just photos, chat briefly, meet up, have sex, and then forget you ever knew each other.
It doesn't need high tech technology, especially considering how many guys could get blackmailed or scammed for having an adulterous video chat.