Oh you're right! It is only fair. I feel it's some kind of social construct that says only rich men can chase after younger women.
But honestly, we're in a new age of empowered women who don't have to conform to patriarchal standards.
So yes, there are more sugar mamas these days.
It's kind of hard to say with authority which sites have the most "sugar mommas" but I will list some of the top sugar dating sites in general, and we can discuss.
1. Secret Benefits - One of the top sites for sugar dating, with special features like member verification, two-factor authentication security, anonymous profiles and discussion, and a large global outreach.
2. Seeking - I know Seeking should probably be #1 because it's the most famous sugar or "luxury" dating website. But it does have a reputation for having mostly rich men chasing younger beautiful women. So maybe not the top choice?
3. Victoria Milan - Two sites very similar, and they do have sugar dating going on here, from men to women and women to men. Victoria is a little more suited to sugar mommas than the next site...
4. Ashley Madison - Famous for sure, and probably one of the few sites that can boast that it has rich sugar mommas posting. (They just happened to be married) But still reliable and anonymous.
5. Elite Singles - I am not sure if this qualifies as a sugar momma site, but are there rich women on ES? 100% there are! This is where executives go to date, when they are stressed and have no social life. But standards are very high, I would think.
6. Sugar Daddy - Very ambitious site, lots of mainstream coverage (Yahoo, DailyDot, etc) and 4 day average for sugar momma/daddy to find a baby. Has 24/7 customer service which is nice. .
7. Sugar Daddy Meet - A little skewered towards men chasing women, but with almost nine million members one of the more successful sugar momma daddy sites. Escorts are banned and online-only dating is also banned. They want to show people they're real. Certified sugar daddies and mommas, and 24-7 live support.
8. Whats Your Price - Not as much a sugar dating site, more of a working class "I'll bid on a date with you" which does attract some wealthy women looking for hot younger guys.
9. Luxury Date - Kind of a newer site but worth a look, more of an app than a site, which is good for people on the go.
10. MillionaireMatch - In business since 2001 and one of the top sites. This is not just sugar momma but millionaire mama, if you're lucky enough to find that.
Any one I left out?