What are your deal breakers in a relationship?

daydrinkingDave

daydrinkingDave

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Just contemplating basically how some apps now have deal breakers which i think is a good idea.

Because if you fill out a 100 question survey about yourself, it still wouldn't explain your values as much as say:

What god you worship
What political party you agree with
What celebrities you find inspiring
What TV shows you watch

I mean I don't know if we want examples or not. But one time I was dating this girl in Vegas and she basically said that she was pro-Confederate. And I thought she was joking at first. But no, as the night went on I found she was serious. She thinks the US would have split just fine if the North and South went their own ways. She says she wasn't pro-slavery but that the Confederates would have outlawed it eventually.

It was just so surreal and weird. And I was like well if you had told me that on the dating app, probably wouldn't have wasted 60$ and two hours on you!
 
Wow that is so effed up!

But yeah I agree, I think sites like OKCupid and Hinge are really good at that, you know, getting filters for politics/religion and such.
 
Pretty sure the most dealbreakers happen on the BIO section of the profile. That's where the dumbest people reveal themselves lol.

Anytime a person sees "You better be 6'5 and make over 100K" or "No feminists!" or anything juvenile like that, you can bet everyone left swipes them.
 
I don't want to get into specific conversations but YEAH. I wish some people would just start out the conversation with your most unpopular opinion because then it would save so much time.

I'm going to date anybody who I see as lacking my morals, or my values. It doesn't feel right to me.

It isn't logical because the relationship is doomed.

And I guess it's disrespectful to the other person too, but if I don't agree with their morals, F that person anyway! 😄

But yeah every app should have some deal breaker options so you can filter out annoying personalities right away
 
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