That's a challenging one because a lot of transwomen don't like to be fetishized, and they might think trans sexting is a form of that. So there are usually more serious trans dating sites, which could also coincide with trans poly sites or other ENM type relationships.
But here are a few worth checking out.
1. TransSexDates
This is one of the better sites for trans people looking to get off. There is probably a mix of healthy libidos and some trans fetishizing, but it's clearly the most trans focused sexting site.
2. Adult Friend Finder
The legend, the one and only all inclusive all sexual site, the one with nudes, and a gazillion fetishes, forums and chatrooms to discuss your kink. There is a pretty good trans population here, as well as its sister site, Alt.com.
3. Butterfly
Butterfly is more of a traditional dating app, but I still include it because of its popularity among the LGBTQIA community and especially transwomen. It's a nice and safe site, where dirty talk is allowed eventually.
3. Flure
A site that thrives on users sharing anonymous fantasies, many of which are trans, gay, queer, questioning, and many other preferences. It has a distinctive classified ads style that makes sexting simple, as well as meeting up in real life.
4. Cam4
More of a cam chat site, but you can decide for yourself if you want just your voice, your video cam, or even text. But the models are always online and on screen, and there are a lot of trans models here, probably more than any other site.
5. Grindr and HER
Grindr and HER are well known for being gay and lesbian versions of Tinder, but what a lot of people don't seem to know is how inclusive both are. Transwomen can join HER, and transwomen are also on Tinder. Text or meetup.
6. Fiorry
Heard a lot of good things about this trans dating app, also good for sexting, or meeting new people. Respectful atmosphere more so than Tinder, Grindr, etc.
7. Taimi
Really good site because it's not just a sexting site or dating app, but a trans community app. Fool around, or discuss issues, or just meet new people locally.
8. iSexyChat
This is more of the traditional mindless sexting fun, and it does have a trans section that's pretty active.
9. WildSexting
Another free sexting site that has multiple trans sexting chat rooms.
10. Trans4Men
This one is a little more of a naughty site, sexting and just mindless fun talking about turn ons, with special interest to the men who desire trans people. Not everyone's cup of tea, but worth a look if you don't mind the horny dudes.
