What are your favorite trans sexting apps?

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I know a lot of generic adult sites have trans chat, but was wondering if there are any chat sites devoted to trans or or other LGBTQ niches.

Adult Friend Finder is OK but I wouldn't say it's booming for trans people.

And not really looking for dating, more just sexting.
 
That's a challenging one because a lot of transwomen don't like to be fetishized, and they might think trans sexting is a form of that. So there are usually more serious trans dating sites, which could also coincide with trans poly sites or other ENM type relationships.

But here are a few worth checking out.

1. Jerkmate (Trans Cams)

More trans girls than I've seen on any other site lately. And the site lets you filter for ethnicity, body type, hair, big dick, cock or ass, age, fetishes (BDSM), or even type of Tgirl like Sissy, Mistress, Femdon, LadyBoy, and so on.

2. TransSexDates
This is one of the better sites for trans people looking to get off. There is probably a mix of healthy libidos and some trans fetishizing, but it's clearly the most trans focused sexting site.

3. Adult Friend Finder

The legend, the one and only all inclusive all sexual site, the one with nudes, and a gazillion fetishes, forums and chatrooms to discuss your kink. There is a pretty good trans population here, as well as its sister site, Alt.com.

4. Butterfly

Butterfly is more of a traditional dating app, but I still include it because of its popularity among the LGBTQIA community and especially transwomen. It's a nice and safe site, where dirty talk is allowed eventually.

5. PinkPalace.Tv
Newer site, but a lot of pretty and very friendly trans models, also a load of different categories, like transgirl, transguy, big tits, big dick, etc. etc.

6. Flure

A site that thrives on users sharing anonymous fantasies, many of which are trans, gay, queer, questioning, and many other preferences. It has a distinctive classified ads style that makes sexting simple, as well as meeting up in real life.

7. Cam4

More of a cam chat site, but you can decide for yourself if you want just your voice, your video cam, or even text. But the models are always online and on screen, and there are a lot of trans models here, probably more than any other site.

8. Grindr and HER

Grindr and HER are well known for being gay and lesbian versions of Tinder, but what a lot of people don't seem to know is how inclusive both are. Transwomen can join HER, and transwomen are also on Tinder. Text or meetup.

9. Fiorry

Heard a lot of good things about this trans dating app, also good for sexting, or meeting new people. Respectful atmosphere more so than Tinder, Grindr, etc.

10. Taimi

Really good site because it's not just a sexting site or dating app, but a trans community app. Fool around, or discuss issues, or just meet new people locally.

11. iSexyChat

This is more of the traditional mindless sexting fun, and it does have a trans section that's pretty active.

12. WildSexting

Another free sexting site that has multiple trans sexting chat rooms.

13. Trans4Men

This one is a little more of a naughty site, sexting and just mindless fun talking about turn ons, with special interest to the men who desire trans people. Not everyone's cup of tea, but worth a look if you don't mind the horny dudes.
 
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Yeah Grindr and HER are pretty good as far as LGBTQ. Grindr is definitely more annoying and there are a lot of bad dicks in there. But HER is pretty sweet all around.
 
TSFun, Flirtini, and Shemale Transgender Hookup. I've also heard of TenderBang, which is just for trans hookups not serious dating.
 
Sorry, I'm a bit slow today. So what do you see on a trans cam show?

I admit I haven't educated myself completely. I kind of know that a transperson is transitioning from one gender to the other.

But what exactly do you see on a trans live cam show? I'm kind of curious but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings if there's a misunderstanding.

Can someone who's seen trans cams before give me a preview of what to expect?
 
Curious comment, because I was just discussing this with my circle of friends the other day. We were discussing slurs that straight people use against the trans community, and how it's odd that some straight people continue to use these slurs with transpeople, all the while trying to make a romance happen.

I've even noticed some websites use terms like, well, I won't say them, but offensive terms in order to find trans cam women. And it might not be malicious in intention, but they simply have not been taught a better word for their attractions.

It's actually best to ask a cam model or a dating community, as you have done, rather than assume anything. Because as a talking donkey once told me, when you assume something, you make an ass out of you and me. Sorry, I couldn't resist.

Anyway, as regards to webcams, I am not a connoisseur, nor an erotic cinemaphile. However, what I do know is that each webcam model takes great pride in offering something unique, and very few shows are alike.

No transperson model will fit into a comfortable stereotype. You might meet a variety of trans performers. What matters is that for a moment you are connecting with someone else. Not necessarily in a committed or romantic relationship, but a physical and perhaps an emotional one.

That's what is important. My instinct tells me since there are thousands of transpeople on cam sites, you're likely to find a wide variety of people who are transitioning, pre-transitioning, or post-transitioning.

I'm guessing the best way to figure out the mystery is to ask, using a reasonable degree of tact and restraint, so as not to offend your date.
 
There is a lot of variety. But at the same time, camgirls kind of know what guys are looking for. So I would call it less of a dating site, and more like a trans stripclub.

The most popular offering would be a trans camgirl with big tits and a big dick.

You take a site like PinkPalace Trans, which is known for having lots of trans cams. Most of the camgirls have penises but some are clothed, some are into different kinks, and some are part of a couple. Like Embers_of_Eternity, she's into anal, blowjobs, dirty talk, fantasies, and is kind of a nerd too so she loves to talk about geeky stuff besides just jerking off.

And not all of the T camgirls have big dicks or big tits. Some do, some don't. Roxaneered, definitely on the bigger scale. BellaRoar, Theif0fHearts, more laid back and not trying to look like a porn star.

Some are just their natural selves, but typically wearing feminine clothing. Although I have seen FtM cam models before too. And a few are just non-binary. AlisonCortese brings her BF along sometimes so that's cool too.

But I think a lot of camgirls expect guys to just be masturbating, so the camgirls might be jerking off too. Sometimes they won't start though until you pay. So some are still clothed.

There are a helluva lot of T-girls here too so you kind of have to just go through them and see what they're offering and what their kinks are for a better match.
 
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I'm curious to know what trans models don't like or don't want to hear. I kind of like my dates to be into me. And I can't imagine insulting them on the first date.

But the cam experience is new to me! I'm not sure how to dirty talk or have phone sex with a stranger. All the times I've done it, it's been with a GF.
 
I think you just have to be able to recognize cringe. I mean let's face it, camgirls have heard it all. They're used to talking about sex, and using four letter words, and being sexualized. They know it's just cam fun, so they're not expecting you to be well-behaved.

But you can be horny and pushy and NOT transphobic. Like no slurs, no asking personal questions, no weird roleplays like incest or ageplay or anything like that. Not only will they not do it, but there are usually TOS about not even pretending to do anything illegal.

I'd just say, go in there, be friendly, be horny and talk about how you feel and how seeing her makes you more horny. And then she might start to guide you, so that you don't have to talk that much. You can just get to masturbating hehehehe
 
I think it's important to emphasize that consent should always be expressed and enthusiastically expressed, at that.

Even in cases of virtual sex.

True, the cammodel may not feel threatened by someone thousands of miles away and in another country. But harsh words, violent attitudes, and insulting language can hurt your cam model. And why pay for an experience that you don't enjoy and the performer doesn't enjoy?

Some men believe they are entitled to sex because they pay for it, which is not true. The cam model may choose to have virtual sex, for money, but that is her choice, based on a genuine and respectful connection. It's still a gift, and you would be wise to treat it that way. 'Don't be an asshole' is still a great measuring stick.

Remembering this may help you on your cam sex journey. ;)
 
You know I've never thought of that before, but you're right.

People do kind of push around camgirls, and there should be more "expressed consent" than there is.

And obviously if she's using a toy and is talking to a lot of people at once, that's "consent" to orgasm together.

But like if you're dirty talking, or roleplaying, or doing a little BDSM play, you need to talk about that first. And not just shove your way in the room and start calling her a slut. (And especially a T slur)

So yeah there is a need to be human, and remember that your entertainer is also a person with feelings.
 
On cam sites? Overwhelmingly pre-trans, usually breast implants, and penis. Thing is, if you have the surgery, the post-op body will look fairly cis, in my opinion, well, depending on how long you waited to get it done. So then they would not necessarily call themselves trans models, if the surgery went well and they're passing.

But the thing is, a lot of straight/gay/curious men fetishize transwomen, and so they're used to being treated as this sex goddess with big boobs and a huge dick. Since it's not "real dating" the cam models are OK with it, as long as they know how to treat a lady.

But yah it's kinda rare to see FtM or post-op Trans because they kinda know what sells, and that doesn't.
 
Hmmmm, you might be right that there are more MtF trans girls on these apps, but there are FtM performers, and non-binary, and other variations out there. You just got to look for them and they are very often tagged, because they know they're a niche that people are looking for.
 
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