Well can I just say, I've always admired your posts here, JohnBoy, and your wit and intelligence, and I'm not just saying that after finding out you're loaded!
Seriously, the sugar daddy market is a complex one. I notice that different sugar websites seem to cater to very different demographics. Here are a few I've studied, at least cursorily, since I'm not actively looking for a sugar baby. (The cheap AI bots are more my speed)
1. Secret Benefits
Pretty popular sugar site from what I hear, probably because of its verification process. Safety features and privacy, everyone keeps their secrets then, as the hobbits say.
2. Sugar Daddy & Ashley Madison
Two very similar sites, one with the theme of sugar daddy and sugar baby, and one without. But both sites from what I've read seem to be a top hangout for sugar babies.
3. Sugar Daddy Meet
One of the most protected sites for sugar daddies, where everyone is verified and investigated before showing. No wonder it's the oldest and most trusted site, and one of the most populated with almost 9 million members.
4. Elite Singles
Elite Singles, I get mixed vibes from. Yes, on one hand it is a rich man dating site. But these executives and wealthy men are also easily swayed by beauty. Some of the men would probably fall for an attractive sugar baby, as long as she has a job!
5. Victoria Milan
Another site similar to Ashley Madison (same photo editing tools and anonymity) but this one has little things like virtual gifts, verified profiles, and the like. Seems like a site that offers stuff AM does not.
6. Luxury Date
Definitely a more leisurely, less stuffy and invasive sugar dating site. Not as concerned with verification or moderation. Just a nice app for people who want low-pressure texting with the sugar baby of their choice.
7. MillionaireMatch & Established Men
Established Men redirects to Millionaire Match nowadays, and Millionaire Match is what I would call a more serious sugar baby and sugar daddy site, for people (like you, John) who are looking for a wife and not just a pretty girl to waste money on.
8. Elite Meets Beauty
Similar to Millionaire Match and commitment oriented, but maybe without the requirement of being a millionare. This site also has an 85% college degreed membership, which is good for the daddy. They tend to like smart and tough women!
9. Sugar Book & Seeking
These are two similar sites where they emphasize anonymity, discretion and the opportunity to create a relationship where you call the shots and find exactly what you want - no matter how hard to find it is.
Sugar Book, seems to have a better reputation, and more real members than fakers, unlike Seeking.
If I find any more sites I'll add them. Wish you luck, JohnBoy. But don't invite me to the wedding, this is my fiscal year and I'm very busy!