Are there any legit sugar dating sites?

kickingTires56

kickingTires56

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Not sure if this kind of post is allowed here. But I was wondering if any of you have used sugar dating sites?

I don't mean hookups, because a lot of sugar dating is long-term, or so I've heard from what I've read on the subject.

Sugar relationships tend to be mutually beneficial but long-term, and some even lead to marriage.

I also think I heard that some of the millionaire dating websites went out of business.

So what do you think are the top sugar sites left nowadays that are legitimate and not a scam?
 
Well, it's hard to say what a true sugar dating site is anymore.

There are a lot of sites and they all cater to different audiences.

There's traditional sugar dating, but also modern sugar dating, which I think is hand in hand with escorting. There is also just random girls who will let you buy them dinner and gifts and then never sleep with you. Is that what you want or do you learn towards the girlfriendly experience? (Meaning sex)

I have a list of some sites I've used or heard of and give you my impressions.

1. Secret Benefits - Seems like the most popular site for luxury stuff, rich guys seeking attractive women, that sort of thing. Has more strict member verification, safety features, and a global community.

2. SugarDaddy.com- Underrated sugar dating site. Women aren't interested in most men, UNLESS they sense you have big bucks and there are very lovely women here. The site is very discreet with anonymity tools and a very professional and sophisticated look.

3. Adult Friend Finder - Not really the point of this site but there are definitely sugar babies lurking on here looking for Daddy Warbucks.

4. Sugarbook - Pretty popular and reputable site with NSAs, discreet meetings, and live events which is cool.

5. SugarMeet - A bit more shady than Sugar Book, but still promises the same sugar benefits.

6. Ashley Madison - Similar to SugarDaddy.com, but more focused on married dating, and cheating. But yes there are definitely sugar babies here looking for Daddy Warbucks.

7. Elite Singles - Very much an executive level dating site, where rich people or working execs can meet up and talk about stuff other than work.

8. Luxury Date - Very simply site, not much known about it. Nice looking though, or that could just be the models.

9. Elite Meets Beauty - Pretty successful site with a growing population and an 85% college education demographic.

10. Established Men/Millionaire Match: Pretty fancy site with options like Certified Millionaire Status. Seems to be more serious than the average site.

11. Seeking - Another sugar daddy site, but supposedly quite a few scammer guys too. Private and anonymous, fairly well known.

12. WhatsMyPrice - Kind of the Walmart version of Seeking. Women just go on there to get bid on, get paid from it, and taken out to a nice dinner. Work likes a charity auction. Don't expect sex right away, but worth trying.

Hope this helps and I will add others as I discover them.
 
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I don't think you're going to meet any sugar daddy executives. Elite Singles is for wealthy guys who want to meet working and wealthy women. Pretty much the opposite of sugar dating.
 
NO.

Absolutely no interest in sugar daddy or sugar baby dating.

Sugar babies just another word for hoe or gold digger, lol. Go ahead and send hate mail. I been with lots of women who want me to pay their bills and buy them shit. And I got played more than a football, bro. I woke up and put an end to it.

Your job ain't professional sugar baby, girl! :ROFLMAO::sick::ninja::ninja:
 
Believe it or not there are plenty of sugar "daddies" who love the idea of spoiling a pretty woman. Usually younger women for older men, but not always.

I will say that sugar babies have to have a great personality. A combination of intelligence, maturity, appropriate immaturity (since teasing is what attracts the man) and good conversational skills.

Boring sugar babies are not worth paying for, simply put.
 
MaybeYesterday, have you dabbled into the lifestyle?

Thanks for the list, ForgetMe.

I am interested in it, but haven't read much about it. I suppose there are some rules and etiquette standards to familiarize myself with.

How much do you think these sugar babies make, anyway?
 
No, sadly I haven't.

Or not so sadly, if you're not a fan of sugaring, as Manifesto indicated he's not.

I don't have that much income, I'm afraid. Although I would reluctantly say I have been "used" for money before, and I can't say I minded it too much, considering the "rewards" that I got.
 
A lot of these have really bad reviews. Millionaire Match, one common complaint is that they don't have very many "millionaire" level members. Just a lot of wannabes.

That's why WhatsMyPrice and Seeking are some of the best sites for that sort of thing. Verified profiles at Seeking.

WMP is way cheaper, more about just being nice and paying the woman for a date to date her. It's an ego boost, but there's no guarantee about sex. Might just be a waste of time and money.
 
Sugar dating sites are definitely a luxury for the rich.

You're not just talking about paying for a date. These sugar babies get monthly allowances. We're talking huge financial investment, to someone who thinks nothing of money.

What's My Price is not really a sugar dating website.
 
I'd love to spoil some sugar babies at McDonalds. Get anything you want on the menu, Ronald is paying for it today!
 
It's a strange thing, honestly. Men who just throw money at women they cannot attain, have no hope of ever dating, but still like the chase. And the women I suppose, like the money?

I was just visiting some website that offered to match people from across the world. And I think the same dynamic is true.

Men just want to pay women to humor them, even if the attraction is not there.

I just wonder if these sugar daddy dating sites or is it sugar momma dating sites? (And do these mommas actually look for poor sexy boys to strut around town too?) really work and do people go out on dates or is it all online now?
 
My guess is that there is probably a shortage of sugar mommas compared to sugar daddies.

Sugar Mommas don't need to post an ad just to find company. If they are attractive, they can find a young dumb guy to simp for them in no time.

I used to work in a bar a long time ago. And every time a woman came in there, even if she was chubby or had a butterface, there were always guys talking to her and offering to buy her drunks. It was a pickmeup to the women, because they always felt in demand, in a small town and what not.

Are you asking if sugar mommas get off on spending money on their boy toys? I guess that's possible. Maybe they feel like it's "owning them" or treating them like a girlfriend.

I don't know, but no sugar momma has ever offered to pamper me, a 55 year old man. And it's too bad because I'd be a cheap date.
 
To answer your question, no I don't think it's all entirely "online." Maybe on some sites it is, but sugar dating is actually a popular pastime in some countries.

And the sugar baby may or may not have sex with the guy. I'd say she will at some point. Because after getting thousands of dollars or whatever, there's pound to be some pity sex after a while.

The problem is finding sugar dating sites where the daddies and babies are verified and profiles are moderated. Because there are fakers on both sides for sure.
 
I don't quite understand the situation though.

Are sugar babies paid for sex or are they paid for their time? Are they paid for flirting?

There is financial compensation, but I'm confused about how they negotiate this process.
 
There is financial compensation, obviously. But unlike an escort the sugar daddy is not paying for companionship.

He is just giving her money because he enjoys doing it. It turns him on and it turns her on too.

They usually negotiate at the outset of the relationship. Maybe they change their terms every so often. But I think that women find when dealing with a wealthy man he wants everything in writing, in agreement, and no surprises. And she doesn't want to feel trapped either. So negotiation in the beginning.

No negotiation for sex. Usually just the Daddy offering her money and her either accepting the deal or wanting more, or terminating the friendship entirely.
 
So I'm still confused about how the sugar daddy figures out the final amount. Is she paid upfront or monthly, or like a flat rate contract?

Is it cash only? And how much does a beautiful youngish girl get, vs. a 30 or 40 year old woman?
 
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I can't speak for every sugar couple out there but usually they agree to some sort of allowance.

The sugar baby gets a set amount of money per month, probably cash although it's not unheard of to send it via cashapp or some other online account.

They might also get paid per date, and their expenses are also paid if they travel out of state or country.

And you know, sugar babies are pretty smart and shrewd. So if they live in LA they know what you can afford and they will research what they can get from you.

Oh and sometimes they get extra expenses too for shopping, restaurants, beauty products, wishlists, gifts, just whatever.

I'd say allowances can start with as little as 2000 a month. But there's really no limit if you're dating a billionaire or even a millionaire. Some sugar babies get thousands a month...and they may even have several sugar daddies too!
 
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