What are sex dating sites anyway?

kickingTires56

kickingTires56

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I see a lot of ads for sex dating sites and I'm just kind of wondering what does that mean?

I'm a dumb guy so please explain to me like I'm 12.

Is this an ad for prostitution? Is it for escorts?

Or is it like a dating site for casual relationships?

I don't know about you guys but when I was dating in my 20s I was always wanting sex. Guess how often I got it? Never. Well except once when I found a girlfriend.

I'm just confused is all. What are some examples of sex dating sites, like Tinder?
 
A little from Column A and a little of Column B I would think.

I don't think any "average" man would turn away free sex, if it's there, if it's offered. Seems like a perfectly healthy thing to pursue.

But if such random acts of passion are unavailable, I can also see why some men might seek out escorts, which are sex workers who are sometimes referred to as prostitutes. I would hesitate to use the latter term simply because escorts always have sex by choice, since the client pays for her time and companionship. Solicitation is for sexual acts, and monetized accordingly.

Regardless, most men don't know where to turn when they are ready to pay but have no offers coming in. They might seek solace in sex dating sites.

My recommendations would be as follows:

1. Ashley Madison

The most notorious affair and one night stand site, and the one with the "Life is short have an affair" catchphrase. It appeals to married people who want to fool around discreetly.

2. Adult Friend Finder

A little more publicly exhibitionist than private, AdultFriendFinder is a catch all sex site, built like Facebook but with hardcore nudity featured. It's the place to go to find sexually adventurous partners are learn a few things as you go.

3. Flure

A fairly new app that brings people together based on just a sentence, or a fantasy, or a secret desire. It's a one night stand sort of site that satisfies passions rather than finding friends who are more open minded about commitment.

4. Tinder

Kind of the default sex-finding site, since it matches people locally for intimacy, and or a longer-term relationship. Unfortunately, also overwhelmed with fakers and spammers from what I hear.

5. Hinge

Hinge is similar to Tinder but perhaps more discriminating. It matches people based on mutual liking and personality, not just location and looks.

6. Bumble

Also like Tinder/Hinge, but gives more power to women. They make the first move after mutual matching someone and start the conversation.

7. Feeld

A generally free-thinking dating site, which is swinger and poly friendly.

8. Tryst

More of a sex and escorting list site, but formatted like a dating site. Maybe too intense for sensitive viewers!

9. SkiptheGames & MegaPersonals

Two escort listing sites that are not arranged like a dating site. Instead, they are formatted like Craigslist, just a personal ads type of theme.

10. Zoosk

From what I've heard, a fun video streaming site where people meet face to face on a public camera system, much like TikTok.

Hope this helps.
 
Pretty good list, would add Tryst and SkipTheGames to the list of escort sites.

Victoria Milan for dating sites, it's very similar to Ashley Madison and some people claim it has more real women there.

Seeking if you have money, because a lot of women are more attracted to rich guys who love big spending.

And also maybe PURE, another classified ad type app.
 
There are way too many apps that promise sex. Dating sites are not pimps, OK?

They can't guarantee you're going to get you laid. If you're lucky you'll find a site that gives you a free three months renewal if you can't get your dick wet after paying for three months.

All these apps can do is put you in touch with other people who are also horny.

But the joke's on you, because women probably disqualify like 75% of all the men that hit on them.

That leaves you with two options. Up your game, or go on Grindr and get a free blowjob from a dude.
 
daydrinkingDave said:
They can't guarantee you're going to get you laid. If you're lucky you'll find a site that gives you a free three months renewal if you can't get your dick wet after paying for three months.
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Hardly any sex dating sites do that anymore. Because they did not account for the overwhelming stupidity and poor hygiene of single cishet males.

daydrinkingDave said:
But the joke's on you, because women probably disqualify like 75% of all the men that hit on them.
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That's not true. Women DO disqualify men for obvious reasons. But 75% seems unlikely. You're not accounting for things like bad timing, personal circumstances, guys saying something stupid, guys losing interest (yes it happens) and just the old excuse of "I had a better offer."

I can't even illustrate how competition is a factor here.

What works for one woman on one certain day is not repeatable. She may be interested in a guy tomorrow, but get a better offer the next day, and so on.

It's luck of the draw and it's about time more guys realize that.

So I would tell people, just be patient and keep swiping and liking and eventually you will get matches. The odds will turn in your favor. So be ready, be cool, and you'll get some.
 
daydrinkingDave said:
That leaves you with two options. Up your game, or go on Grindr and get a free blowjob from a dude.
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There are actually a lot more options than just two.

Escort sites, great option, especially if you are thirsty and don't care about personality.

Real dating sites, like eHarmony, Bumble, and Hinge. I think people are scared of them because they think women are crazy about commitment.

Plot twist: They're not. And especially not if you have no long-term partner potential. But that doesn't mean sex is out of the question.

Also lifestyle websites like Fetlife, Alt or AdultFriendFinder are not bad options either. You can just join, comment, share photos, be interesting, like Facebook, but hookup with some fine looking people if you're both in town and bored.

Reddit is actually pretty popular too. R4R, DirtyR4R, random acts of blowjob, etc.
 
It's a subreddit on Reddit where women offer to blow random guys for no reason, except they like them. It doesn't really count in the same category as sex dating sites but it's still worth mentioning.
 
No for real, RandomActsofBlowJob works. It's legit.

It's just hard to compete with all the other dudes, most of whom are probably closer to NYC or L.A. than we are.
 
So what people just say "Hey I want to blow some random guy" or "Hey I want a BJ from a girl!" and people really show up and do this?

I can't believe it!

Why am I just now hearing about this? Are you sure it actually happens?

Why is so hard to get a Tinder date but so easy to get a random blowjob from Reddit users?
 
LOL Because it is mathematically possible that out of one billion girls who would never do that, 1 or 2 might.

There are also girls who flash and or blow pizza delivery guys too. They might be OnlyFans girls, I dunno, but it still happens.
 
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