What are the best sites like Ashley Madison?

kickingTires56

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I was curious about sites like AshleyMadison, in that they are affair sites, or married sites, or just one night stand sites really.

I think Ashley Madison is like the Walmart of these dating sites and no one seems to talk about all the Ashley Madison clones.

Not really looking for serious dating sites or even short-term dating sites like Hinge.

I'm thinking more like this guy is going into town and is too tired or broke to go to the bar, so he looks up this one affair site. Never going to see her again, no risk!

What do you think?
 
There are actually a lot of sites like Ashley Madison because it's simple to create a cookie cutter site, put a sexy cover image on the front, and make some money.

But yeah only a few of these sites actually work well to find affair partners.

Here are my observations.

1. Victoria Milan

Pretty much an Ashley Madison clone but with a few key differences. Like membership fee instead of credits, virtual gifts, and that sort of thing. Not as many members but still discreet, anonymous, photo editing features, private galleries, etc.

2. Adult Friend Finder

Still a reliable site to find sex partners, just overwhelmed with men, and with a lot of flakes who aren't going to meet you. Still, great place to meet many people of all different preferences, orientations and lifestyles. Forums, chat, and blogs. Like the Facebook of the underworld.

3. NoStringsAttached
4. Heated Affairs

Heated Affairs and NoStringsAttached were both in the AFF network but NoStringsAttached has since shut down, while HA remains open for now.

5. Flirt.com
6. BeNaughty

Flirt.com is seems more app friendly than the usual hookup dating site IMO,
and at one time was owned by Cupid PLC, but have since been taken over by Together Networks. They also
BeNaughty.com and WildBuddies.com. About 70 million users between all of them. At least these sites are app friendly, simple, look good and work fast.

7. Gleeden

A European site that matches together unhappily married or couples in open marriages. What's cool about it is that it is geared towards women, rather than men, which is Ashley Madison's problem.

8. MaritalAffair

Cheating site but more popular in the UK than the US. Still, nice services, and all profiles are moderated for quality and genuineness.

9. Seeking

Kind of a luxury sugar dating thing, but very discreet and low-key. At the same time, offers verification of identity AND millionaire status.

10. Flure

More of a fantasy, anonymous confession sort of hookup site. Not specifically about affairs, but surely affairs are one of the top fantasies exchanged. Personal ad style posting.

11. OneNightFriend

Kind of a new site but reminds me of Flirt.com. They are probably in the same network of cheating sites. Nice one, friendly, easy to use interface. Kind of small membership though.


I'd also suggest that if you're after One Night Stands, you'll find just as many on the mainstream dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, POF, etc.

I've never known ANYONE who complained about seeing their affair buddies a second time.
 
Nice list.

But I was thinking, the problem with Tinder and Bumble and other apps is that if you use them frequently you WILL eventually run into people you've already dated, or that you left swiped on. The apps run out of singles to give you after a while. And that's awkward because what if you slept with one of them and things did not go well?
 
I've only been on Tinder a handful of times but from what I understand, you can "block" users you don't like, or that harass you, or that you ahem sleep with and never want to see again.
 
That sounds awesome. A person who sleeps with everyone on Tinder and then insta-blocks them.

Best way to ghost, right there!
 
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