A sissygasm is a unique experience. Yes, it is an orgasm – but it is one that has key factors that make it special.
Firstly, this is a hands-free orgasm. Secondly, orgasm is achieved without touching the penis at all. How? There are various ways, and experimentation is all part of the fun. Let’s dive in.
First of all, we should probably talk about what a sissygasm is and why it has that name – then we can look at the techniques.
The names from another way of refering to the anus – the sissy pussy. So, yes, a sissygasm involves anal stimulation, or at least stimulation of the prostrate via the anus. There are other things you can try – touching and stroking other erogenous zones – but this is the main approach.
When it comes to anal play, you can use fingers, a dildo, a vibrator or a specifically design prostate massager. Because the penis is not touched, it does not matter whether you are erect, flaccid, or somewhere in between; sissygasm is still possible as it occurs elsewhere. Whatever you do, remember to lube up!
Take things really slowly. Whatever you are inserting into your body, do it carefully, gently and tenderly. There is no rush. This is a process of self-love, extreme pleasure, and experimentation. Take your time, enjoy the experience. While mental imagery is incredibly useful, powerfully erotic, and really important, try – really, try! – not to focus on orgasm as a goal.
This may seem contradictory, but while it is helpful to indulge mental fantasies, putting too much focus on the actual orgasm can prove an obstacle. Let the orgasm come when it is ready. It can be an orgasm like no other – akin to a full-body orgasm that can truly transport you to a different place.
Sliding into your lubed up anus, you’re seeking out a small egg-shaped bump. This is the prostate gland and it will respond to delicate stimulation. Try different speeds, different pressures, different movement shapes; see what feel good. If you’re using a dildo you can sit on to ride, this is a great time to practice your grind.
Stay relaxed and focus on what you can feel in your body. As the orgasm builds to its climax, you may ejaculate or leak a little – and this is a beautiful sensation in itself – but the orgasm itself is focused elsewhere. It will start deep inside, behind the genitals. Use your muscles to clamp down on whatever you are using for stimulation and this will enhance things dramatically.
You may feel like you need to pee. Let this sensation grow and fade, and it will develop into a deep and powerful sissygasm.
Next level sissygasm
When you have tried, or even mastered, the sissygasm, you can take things further for a more intense experience. There is much to be gained from what you choose to wear – this is an adventure that you can try on your own or with a partner (or partners), and feeling sexy is important. You can do this with panties, outfits, or anything that feels special for you. There are no rules. If it enhances your experience, you know you are doing it right.
Whether your sisysygasm is solo or partnered, porn can be a real turn on. Don’t forget it1
We have talked about the various ways in which you can reach sissygasm, and you can experiment with all of the techniques and more. You can also try spicing things up a little with caging, chastity cages. While usually associated with BDSM kinks, you don’t have to view it in this way if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Regard it as a way of enforcing the “rule” of no penis touching
You can also boost the sissygasm experience with a period of abstinence. Refrain from sex and masturbation, and you can achieve something truly explosive.
