Are you just a FUCK BUDDY? 5 ways to know

Is she just using you for sex?

Yes, believe it or not, there are some women who use men as fuck buddies. Remember, it isn’t just men who like a good roll in the sheets, get dressed, and say “see you next Saturday!” They’re horny, have needs, and like to fuck just as much as we do.

You might not want to be just a fuck buddy. But maybe that’s all she wants.

 

Here are 5 ways you can tell:

1. Does she call you? When you place a phone call, you have the intention of talking for a little while. You ask about each other’s days, how you’re feeling etc. Be suspicious if she only texts you. Texting is quick and impersonal. Be even more suspicious if it always starts with “What are you up to right now/tonight/this weekend?”

2. Have you met her family? There’s no way a chick only looking for a good lay would introduce you to her family. Too many awkward questions from Mom and Dad when she suddenly drops you like a hot potato.

3. What does she talk about with you? Her family, pets, childhood, and job are all good signs. If you know about these things, she has opened up to you. If your conversations are limited to how shitty her day was and how she is really looking forward to getting together with you, you have been moved to the booty call zone.

4. When are the majority of your dates? If you don’t have “dates” and just meet up and rip each other’s clothes off, you are foolish to think you are anything more to her than a piece of meat. The occasional afternoon date, lunch together, and regular dinnertime dates (in public) are all good signs.

5. How does she refer to you? When introducing you to her friends, coworkers, etc, does she call you her “boyfriend” or just use your name? To look deeper into this, if she only refers to you by name with her friends and they respond with “Ohhh, you’re (insert name here)” and their eyes subconsciously drift to your package, she absolutely is using you for sex. She tells her friends all about everything you do together. Everything.

 

There’s nothing wrong with casual sex (fuck buddies) as long as you’re being safe and clean about it. If you’re not into commitment, consider yourself lucky. You found a girl who wants exactly what you want and doesn’t want to cuddle and talk about baby names after you get busy.

 

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Dave

Author: Dave

Hi, I’m Dave. And I’m a….sex fiend?!? No, not really. But, Kinda :)

Actually, I’m just your average white collar guy who happens to have a soft spot for sexy WOMEN and HOT sex toys. Hence, these are my chosen topics for this blog.

I’m fluent in 3 languages: English, Profanity and Sarcasm.

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  1. Hi, your article was very informing…I do hope that I can make it work in the bed room

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