Here’s a newsflash that might shock some men out there, women love sex. In fact, you can be almost certain that they think about it as much as you do. The main difference between a lot of men and women, is how you get her in the mood. I’m not trying to stereotype here, but there are usually a few fundamental differences in how women operate sexually, as opposed to men.
Here are a few tips to bridge the gap, and have your girlfriend ready for bed, but not sleep.
It’s All about the Pregame
With women, like in football, you have to play all 4 quarters. This doesn’t mean spend a lot of money, or take her to an expensive restaurant. Those things are nice from time to time, but not always necessary. What she will appreciate is your time AND your attention.
If you want her full attention in the bedroom, give her your focus well before hand.
Spontaneity is the Spice of Life
When you’ve been in a relationship for a few months, or longer, it can begin to feel like that new relationship feeling is starting to fade. The last thing you want to do is fall into a rut. Women love a man who shows up for her consistently; but if you want passion, well then bring the heat. A sudden, hard kiss with her pressed against the wall in the right moment, will have your woman swooning in seconds.
Think a little Fifty Shades without the creepy stalker and torture dungeon vibe.
Don’t Rush to the End Zone
You’ve played the first half of the game well. You’ve been attentive and helpful all day. Now you have her ready to go. If you are really aiming to turn her on in a big way, then don’t rush to end zone too fast. Women are well aware that men like the main attraction, but rushed sex will get you a fake orgasm, and give her friends a good laugh the next morning.
When you are in the throes of passion take the time to explore, be playful, and have some fun with foreplay. You’ll be spiking the ball in the end zone for real, if you know what I mean.
When in Doubt, Just Ask
It’s no secret that women like to talk, and are masters of communication. Use that female superpower to your advantage. If you are having trouble cracking the code to her sexy vault, then there is a simple but profound way you can get what you need, ASK HER. Yes, that’s right, have a conversation. Ask her what you already do that turns her on, and what her fantasies are.
Not only will you have a lot of new strategies for your playbook later, but the conversation itself may be enough to get her to the bedroom.