Prostate toys are one of the most under-rated and perhaps misunderstood sex toys for men. Because they’re so misunderstood, finding the best prostate massager is equally challenging.
Let’s start with what the prostate is. The prostate (or “male G-spot”) is located about two inches inside your anus and just below your bladder. It’s about the size of a walnut, and when massaged it often causes an orgasm that feels more intense than any other type of orgasm. This is why many men enjoy anal play – because it stimulates the prostate gland and makes them feel incredible!
Prostate toys aren’t just for those suffering from prostate problems, either. They’re appealing to those who want to try something new and exciting in the bedroom.
But what is a prostate massager? And how does it work?
It’s a sex toy for men that’s designed to be placed into his rectum for sexual pleasure. They come in all shapes and sizes but they all have one thing in common: they stimulate the prostate gland by massaging it (using fingers or toys).
But which model is right for you? Read on to find out which brand of prostate massagers are best suited for beginners to advanced users!
- The 5 Best Prostate Massagers!
- What else should I know about prostate massagers?
The 5 Best Prostate Massagers!
#1: LELO Hugo
Best for: Beginners to Advanced Users
Fills the rectum moderately. Comfortable when in place.
I’ve written about HUGO a lot since it was released a couple years ago. I don’t use it as much as I used to, but it’s still the best prostate massager in my semi-professional opinion.
Yes, I know. Another toy from LELO. I cant help it, though. They make some of my favorite male sex toys.
Here’s why I like this one so much: the wireless remote control. For a long time I never had wireless toys, and thought of them as a silly gimmick. Now that I have one, I can’t believe I waited so long. Being able to have my hands free to do other things is awesome. I simply find a setting I like, and put the remote down. Voila! Hands-free!
- It’s cordless, utilizing a rechargeable battery.
- It comes with a wireless remote control.
- A satin, soft feel texture that feels good in the hand, even better in the butt.
- HUGE range of vibrations from intense rumbles all the way down to mild vibrations.
- It’s a hands free device. Once inserted, your hands are available for other things and not fiddling around with a toy.
- It’s waterproof. Enjoy it anywhere, even the shower!
- It’s expensive. One of the highest cost toys I’ve reviewed.
- Take some practice to get accustomed to the remote control and settings on the toy.
Also, read my full review of the Lelo Hugo.
#2: Aneros Helix
Best for: Beginners
The Helix is designed for comfort, convenience and efficiency. The bulbous shape of the Helix will gently massage your P-spot with each stroke, while its curved stem allows for easy insertion and removal.
There are several reasons why the Aneros Helix prostate massager is so popular.
The first reason is that it’s made of high-quality medical grade silicone. This means it’s not only easy to clean, but also will not cause any irritation or rashes.
The second reason is that it’s designed with a curved tip that will provide additional stimulation to your prostate gland. It also has a thin stem that allows you to easily insert the massager into your anus with minimal effort.
The third reason is that this anal plug has been designed to be hands-free, meaning it can be controlled by your own movements rather than having someone else control the device for you. This makes the Aneros Helix ideal for those who want to experiment with prostate massage without having someone else involved in their experience.
The fourth reason why this sex toy is so popular among men who want to experiment with prostate massage is because of its size and shape. The curved tip means that when you move around during intercourse or masturbation, the tip will rub against your prostate gland while also providing additional stimulation from behind due to its curved shape and thin stem.
It’s also small and discreet – You can travel with this toy very easily because it’s so small and discreet! You don’t have to worry about TSA agents confiscating it when they see it in your luggage (or even airport security). It also means that you can take it in your purse or backpack without worrying about someone noticing and asking questions (if they see).
- Very inexpensive
- It’s simple. No batteries to charge or vibrators to stop working.
- The #1 best toy for beginners. The slim diameter is perfect for rookies who aren’t used to inserting things into their butt.
- It takes patience and practice to use. Some guys report having hard time getting off with it.
- This thing is like cocaine. Tolerance builds very quickly. It doesn’t take long before this toy just isn’t enough anymore.
See my full review of Aneros Helix.
#3: Njoy Pure Wand
Best for: Intermediate to Advanced Users
The Njoy Pure Wand is a stainless steel prostate massager that has bulbous heads and a long neck. It’s designed to be inserted into the anus (or vagina if you’re a lady) and used to massage the prostate gland. The Pure Wand is made of medical-grade stainless steel, so it’s completely body-safe and non-porous.
It’s also one of the most popular prostate massagers on the market. Why is this? Here are five reasons why you should consider buying the Njoy Pure Wand:
- Superior design
- Easy to clean
- Wide variety of sizes available
- Made from medical-grade stainless steel
- Includes a lifetime guarantee
Njoy’s signature line of sex toys has been around for nearly 20 years now, and their products are known around the world as being some of the best out there. They’re also well-known for their commitment to quality — each toy is hand-polished in person throughout its production process (not just one part of it), with each piece being inspected by another worker before being sent off for packaging and shipping.
The best thing about this toy?
I can precisely control the pressure on my prostate when I’m using it. You see, the toy acts like a lever when inserted. When I’m laying on my back, a simple press down will nudge the other end of the Wand up. This applies more pressure to my prostate.
If I want a lighter touch, I just lift up. This eases the pressure on my prostate.
All in all, this toy is kinda like an exotic Italian sports car. It’s firm and unforgiving, but in the right hands, amazing things can happen.
- Stainless toys are the ultimate for durability and will last decades.
- Men and women can BOTH enjoy it! It’s like getting two toys for the price of one.
- A snap to clean. Some hot soapy water does the trick every time.
- No other toy is built like this. Applying and decreasing pressure during prostate play doesn’t get any easier.
- The balls on each end are different sizes. Use the big one when feeling frisky.
- Semi expensive. You get what you pay for. Sheer excellence.
- It’s heavy! A hand is always required to keep it on the right spot.
- Steel holds temperature very well. If this toy is in a cold room, it’s best to put it in warm water for a bit before play time.
See my full review of the Njoy Pure Wand.
#4. Aneros Vice
Best for: Intermediate to Advanced users
Why Is The Aneros Vice Prostate Massager So Popular?
The answer lies in its unique design and its effectiveness at stimulating the prostate gland. Here are some of its key features:
The Vice has a bulbed shape with three pressure points that can stimulate the prostate gland from all angles
The bulbous head is designed to fit comfortably inside your rectum, delivering maximum stimulation without causing any discomfort or pain
It comes with 8 vibrating modes that can be controlled by a remote control (for those who like hands-free play) or manually by pressing buttons on the device itself
I consider the Vice a classic prostate toy. Simple yet effective. Luxurious feeling but not too expensive. It’s also the first vibrating one I bought!
I like it because it comes in two pieces, which makes maintenance easier.
- The vibrating mechanism that slides out the bottom for battery replacement or cleaning (if necessary).
- The soft yet firm body safe silicone plug that does most of the work.
- Easy to operate. One button turns it on, off and adjusts the vibes.
- Stays in place very well. Once it’s in there’s no coming out until you’re ready to remove it manually.
- Flexible so it can be manipulated easily. Firm enough to provide consistent pressure.
- Battery life is average. A few hours of play tops, depending on your setting. Fortunately it uses just one AAA battery.
- Changing the battery in the vibrator can be tricky because the parts are relatively small.
Read my full review of Aneros Vice.
#5: LELO Loki Wave
Best for: Intermediate to advanced users
If any of my sex toys made me say WHOA the first time I used it, it was this one.
Wave offers something unique to any anal toy I’ve ever seen: it has a reticulating “arm” that moves back and forth to hit two spots at once! The prostate and the nearby perineum. Combined with the excellent vibrations, this is the one and only toy that provides the full package for maximum ass pleasure.
It’s basically a cousin to the standard Loki that was #1 on this list. Same size. Same vibes. Just with the additional stimulating arm.
The only reason it’s so far down on the list is the price point. I feel it’s a bit expensive for what it does, but if you have money to spare, totally worth it.
- The reticulating pleasure arm that rubs the perineum is a unique feature
- Strong vibrations that are easy to control
- Waterproof for playtime anywhere.
- While the moving arm is fun, I feel that it’s an unnecessary edition that’s not worth it in “bang for the buck” terms.
- While I’ve never had any issues with mine, I feel that the moving arm could be problematic over long term use. More complex mechanisms are more likely to fail.
See my full review of Lelo Loki Wave.
What else should I know about prostate massagers?
Common toy questions:
- Is the cost of this butt toy within my budget?
- Which type of stimulator should I buy? Regular or vibrating?
- I’m a prostate play beginner. Which device is right for me?
- I like having my prostate pounded. Which one will hit me the hardest?
- I enjoy a full feeling in my rectum. Which one will stretch me out a bit?
- I heard some toys are made from stainless steel. Where do I find those?
If you’re brand new to all this, I recommend that you don’t buy a toy at all. At least not yet.
Start with a finger, or have your partner use theirs. Get accustomed to the feelings, sensations and locations.
Once you’ve been down this road and feel like “hey, I want to take this to the next level!” then it’s time to grab your first toy.
As mentioned in my list above, there’s no better toy to start than with the Helix Syn, by Aneros. I’ve included a few more options in the table below, suitable for noobs.
Beginner toy suggestions
|Toy Description||Review Link|
|Aneros Helix Syn||Review|
|Aneros Progasm Jr.||Review|
I have some experience, but not a lot. What should I try?
This is for the level 2 prostate players. You’ve graduated from fingers and small diameter toys and need something a bit larger and more fulfilling.
These stimulators pack a little more punch than the beginner toys. The diameters are a bit bigger and will cause a little more stretch in your rectum.
The vibrators in this category will hit a little bit harder and will have a wide range of patterns and intensities to choose from.
Intermediate toy suggestions
|Toy Description||Review Link|
|Njoy Pure Wand||Review|
|Lelo Loki Wave||Review|
|L’Amourose Rosa Rouge||Review|
I’m a veteran. Which one will rock me the hardest?
These stimulators are reserved for those who have graduated college and ready to go for the PhD. A couple of these aren’t for the feint of heart.
Do you like to have your butt hole stretched? These are the toys for you.
Do you like super strong vibrations? You’re in the right category.
Do you enjoy a bit of pain during anal play? These will make you feel right at home.
You’ll notice some toys here that were also included in the previous categories, for example the LELO Loki. I feel this belongs in both places. The diameter is large enough to accommodate intermediate players, while satisfying those that enjoy a full feeling in the rectum.
What really moves the Loki into the advanced category is the vibrations. They simply can’t be topped by any other toy (that I’ve tried). The intensity can be turned up so high that it becomes uncomfortable. Perfect for the guys that like to live on the edge.
Advanced toy suggestions
|Toy Description||Review Link|
|Njoy Pure Wand||Review|
|Lelo Loki Wave||Review|
|L’Amourose Rosa Rouge||Review|
|Tantus P Spot||Review|
Best prostate toys: the pros and cons
This is a common question here at Mr. Racy. I get lots of emails from guys (and gals) asking “should I buy a vibrating model?” The answer isn’t so cut and dry, but here’s my personal opinion.
I love vibrators. They add the extra ZING to my playtime that keeps things interesting and exciting. I love it when I have a toy stuck deep in my ass and I can feel the vibrations radiating through the entire mid section of my body.
Is a prostate vibrator necessary to get off? No. It isn’t. But it feels better.
Vibrations feel damn good. There’s no denying it.
A good prostate vibrator can mean the difference between getting off and NOT getting off. For me personally, there are times where I have difficulty hitting P orgasm. No matter how long or hard I play, it just isn’t going to happen. However, if I plunge a strong male vibrator into my ass, the odds of having that killer orgasm increase significantly.
It’s good fun and keeps things interesting. Vibrators can serve multiple purposes. Not only is my Loki great for ass play, but it makes a great body massager! And if you’re a fan of frenulum play (tickling that skin on the underside of the tip of your penis) it feels phenomenal!
It’s a more complex device. This means you run the risk of something going wrong with it.
They cost more. As you would expect, a more complex device means it has more moving parts. This means it will generally cost more to purchase.
Vibrators need batteries to operate. Most of the time these are rechargeable battery packs (the Aneros Vice is an exception. It uses replaceable batteries). And they never last forever. Over time the charge and play capacity diminishes, just like any other rechargeable battery in your mobile phone, camera, etc. Once the battery reaches the end of its life, you’ll probably need to throw the toy away and buy a new one because they generally aren’t replaceable.
If the battery is dead, no playtime. If it’s been a while since you used your vibrator, the batteries might be dead. This means you have to wait for it to charge, or go buy new batteries. So much for a spur of the moment session.
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What materials should I look for?
As you’re looking around at various devices, there seems to be an endless selection of products comprised of different materials.
However, it’s not quite as confusing as it seems.
There are really only 4 different materials that these toys are made of.
This is usually ABS plastic. It’s quite hard, firm and unforgiving. But it’s very effective when rigidity is needed to make a toy stiff and non bendable. The Aneros Progasm (read more) fits in this category.
When choosing a plastic toy, make sure it’s body safe and doesn’t contain phthalates. Reputable manufacturers like LELO, Aneros, Nexus and Tantus always make body safe toys and clearly state the materials their toys are made of. This is usually a concern only with the super cheap knock off brands.
This is the best, most luxurious option. Silicone is used in all sorts of sex toys for both men and women. It’s generally hypo-allergenic and safe for use in and out of the body. The Aneros Helix Syn (in my top 5 list above) and the LELO Loki Wave (read more) are fine examples.
Steel is hard, cold and very unforgiving. This is what makes it one of my favorite sex toy materials. It’s nearly indestructible and very easy to clean and maintain. The Njoy Pure Wand is my favorite (one of my top 5 at the beginning of this post).
This is widely used for sex toys as well. But I’m not a big fan of it. It’s a very easy material to clean, and when lubed up, it slides in and out of all orifices amazingly well. I just don’t like putting things made of glass inside my body. Just make sure there are no cracks or pieces of glass that are missing.
How much does a prostate stimulator cost?
Like most things in life, you get what you pay for.
Typically, when you pay bottom dollar for a cheap knock off item, you get a product that’s crap and doesn’t last for long. On the flip side, when you pay a little more for a quality product, you expect it to last and work well. There are exceptions to these rules, but in general, this is how it goes.
Prostate massagers are no different. Cheap ones are available for around $10 US. Or, you can spend north of $200 US. It’s entirely up to you and your personal budget.
Price varies based on a multitude of factors, including but not limited to:
- Complexity, design of the toy
- Materials the toy is made of
- The vendor you buy it from
When you are ready to purchase, I strongly suggest that you pay a little more and get a toy from a reputable manufacturer.
All the toys I review on this blog are from what I consider to be reputable manufacturers. Aneros, LELO, Tantus, etc. are all trustworthy companies that offer toys with warranties and stand behind their products.
Another thing that makes these businesses trustworthy is that the plainly state what their toys are made of. They display this information prominently so that you can see that they are constructed of safe materials and won’t hurt you.
Well, that wraps things up.
Not only did you see my favorite prostate toys, but you learned what to look for in your next toy purchase. Based on your experience level and lifestyle, the toy that’s perfect for each individual can vary greatly.
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