Prostate orgasm: the ultimate way for a guy to get off!

Prostate orgasm is the grand finale for any guy that practices prostate play. This is the pinnacle of the experience. The icing on the cake!  When combined with other forms of masturbation (like jacking off), there will be loads of “icing” shooting from his cock, if done properly! Get out the towels and the wet wipes, because things could get messy…in a good way.


Today I’ll expand a bit on this awesome sensation (how it feels, how to know when you’re getting close, etc.) This ultimate male pleasure is the culmination of weeks, months, or years of practice.  This is the payoff for all that time spent chasing the elusive P-spot orgasm.



Here’s how it feels

This is based on my own personal experiences.  Your results may differ.

For me, these orgasms are somewhat similar to the ones I get from jacking off or vaginal sex.  They’re just MUCH more intense and last for A LOT longer.  Shooting a big load all over your partner’s back is an incredible sensation, right?  Who the heck doesn’t like that!?!?

Now, imagine that feeling, multiplied by a factor of two or three.  The sensations aren’t just focused around the genitals and immediate vicinity, either.  They can be felt from deep inside your ass all the way up to your abdominal area.

As if that isn’t enough, these orgasms often come in multiples.  If you keep stimulating, they’ll keep coming.  Since you’re not climaxing via ejaculation, there is no refractory period.  Kind of like the Energizer bunny…you can keep going, and going, and going, and going….


Multiple O’s aren’t just for women. Men can enjoy them too!


Here’s the best analogy I can think of to describe this vs. standard orgasm:

If you’re getting old, like me, you probably remember AM radio. That ancient, crackly mono technology, most youngsters will never get to experience. But it was still cool for us, because we didnt know any better. This is like the standard orgasm.

Now, fast forward to the 21st century. We have THX quality audio systems in hour homes. Everyone seems to have an iPod or smart phone that pumps crystal clear HI-FI audio straight into straight their ears. Let’s call this the big prostate “O”.

And that’s the difference.  It’s like night and day. Or Yin and Yang. You really need to experience it for yourself to fully understand it.



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You’re almost there when…

Here are some of the sensations you might experience.  Remember, it’s different for every guy.  These are things I’ve felt from my own play time:

  • You may start to feel contractions outside the area of stimulation.  The thigh and pelvic areas will start to contract the muscles all on their own.
  • You may feel a warm sensation in your pelvic area, and around the genitals
  • You may experience a sensation of “fullness” in your pelvic area and/or abdomen
  • You may feel a fullness in the urethra, even though you’re nowhere near that area
  • You may feel like you can’t hold your bladder.  Personally, I’ve never pissed myself while doing this, it just feels like it.  Regardless, this is why it’s wise to keep a towel nearby, just in case.



What it isn’t

These orgasms have NOTHING to do with your genitals.  It’s a entirely different sexual response, and quite frankly, it’s much more intense than traditional masturbation.

As I mentioned in my tutorial on how to use a p-spot stimulator, it’s important to keep your hands off your cock during this process.  This will allow you to enjoy all those incredible sensations unique to this type of stimulation.

When you’re ready to finish up and blow your load, THEN you can touch yourself or masturbate, or whatever you like to do.



Prostate play doesn’t make you gay

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again.  Sticking things up your ass for pleasure has no reflection on you as a person.  If it feels good, then do it!  NEVER be ashamed of sexual pleasures that make you feel good.

It’s perfectly fine if you, as a man, don’t want foreign objects in your ass.  However, I’d be willing to wager that once you find out just how good it feels, you’ll change your mind right quick!

Some guys have experienced prostate massage with another man. If it’s something you might feel comfortable with, check out this reader submission, right here.


A note on shemale orgasm

If you’re into shemale porn, you’ve probably noticed that this is a pretty big deal in that realm as well.  With that said, it works the same way.  As long as “her” prostate is still intact, all the same rules apply.

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Author: Dave

Hi, I'm Dave. And I'm fiend?!? No, not really. But, Kinda :) Actually, I'm just your average white collar guy who happens to have a soft spot for sexy WOMEN and HOT sex toys. Hence, these are my chosen topics for this blog. I'm fluent in 3 languages: English, Profanity and Sarcasm. I own a number of male sex toys, and my personal "toybox" is growing rapidly. But prostate toys are my favorite. So, enjoy the ride, and drop me a line if you have something to say! Hey hey...I just joined Reddit! /u/mrracy

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  1. Question: you mentioned prostate massage with your girlfriend, does she use a toy on you, and if so, which do you suggest?

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    • Dave

      Hello Mike:

      I have two toys that are great for couples: Billy and Hugo

      The Lelo Billy is great because she can use it like a dildo. I kinda enjoy the in and out action with vibrations, so this is a great toy to enjoy the best of both worlds.

      The Lelo Hugo is awesome for a totally different reason. It has a wireless remote control. We like to switch “roles” in the bedroom from time to time. When she’s playing DOM, she gets to control the vibrations from afar. She can tease and dominate me in any way she likes, as the control is in her hands. Remember, Hugo isn’t designed for in and out action…it just stays in place.

      So, depending on what you’re looking for, these are both outstanding toys for couples play. I’m lucky to have both of them in our toybox!

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